im 23. ive been married since i was 18. which means we have been Married for 5 years this coming January. We are working on having kids, i say working cause when you have infertility issues it's what my good friend from cosmo school Stevon would call a "process". I have good days and i have some really bad days. I'm dealing with an illness. An illness that wasnt caught until i was 17. But, I feel i was picked for a reason.