For most people, love is a response to need fulfillment.
Everyone has needs. You need this, another needs that. You both see in each other a chance for need fulfillment. So you agree鈥攖acitly鈥攖o a trade. I鈥檒l trade you what I鈥檝e got if you鈥檒l give me what you鈥檝e got. It鈥檚 a transaction. But you don鈥檛 tell the truth about it. You don鈥檛 say, 鈥淚 trade you very much.鈥� You say,
鈥淚 love you very much,鈥� and then the disappointment begins.
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