My life motto is simple: Follow your dreams...
I see guys spending weeks, months trying to make a girl happy.
I see girls waiting endlessly for their guys to call.
Is that all your life is about?
For your lover to validate you? Or to make a relationship work?
Instead, why not focus on yourself - working on your goals,
learning something,
being a more positive person and helping others.
That will boost your self-esteem far more than any lover ever could.
Next time that guy or girl treats you badly, say thank you.
Say thank you for reminding me that I need to make myself the focus of my life,
not you.