I guess the greatest lesson I've learned in life is to never invest deep feelings for someone....I never hope they will love me the way I want them to. I never expect that those sweet gestures and sweet words are true....coz eventually everything becomes a past...Sooner or later they will just drop me off and will leave me nothing...
so I train myself to let go of the things I fear to lose, so that when they are gone I won't feel dumb and pathetic all along.