I believe in - " You are what your deepest desire is. As is your desire, so is your intention. As is your intention , so is your will. As is your will so is your deed. As is your deed, so is your destiny."
It isn't what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.
"When thou truly desires, the universe conspires!"