Hold on, Ride it like your giving your life away. Chances are it's not the big of a deal, and it can always be worse.
Give everything away and you'll see how much you still have overwhelming you.
I hate the phrase " If a guy wanted too..."
or the phrase " A guy could..."
Obviously it is a necessity to be done, so quit being freaking coy and tell me how! I just asked you what is next, this isn't a first date, or the first time this action has been performed! Just tell me what the hell to do!!!