My favorites are not ephemeral; People tell me I am someone they can count on; I am an INTJ on Myers-Briggs, and have been for decades (see Favorites - I guess that means I'm resistant to change); I love a good argument (ahem, discussion) when both sides can be objective and not get personal or emotional; One of my greatest strengths is also one of my biggest weaknesses - I can see many sides to an issue;