Before criticizing someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way when you do criticize them, you're a mile away, and you have their shoes.
Phil and I have survived :) 14 years of marriage! We have 3 very "active" children. Our son Raven is 13, and daughters Rhiannon and Lillian are 12 and 9 respectively. I'm currently the General Manager at the Holiday Inn Express in Drums.