If u have a goal and u believe in it, u can achieve it. This is what life is about; It's about becoming who u'r meant to be. I think that everybody has a calling on there life. So what is yours? Will u take risks? Fear of the unknown is the biggest hurdle, it's a game! The pact there to row is self-awareness; U need a plan for it! If u don't know what makes u happy and what would that picture look like; if u don't know what ur passions are, and then u can't begin to even follow them because u haven't done the first step: step of self-examination and self-awareness; to figure out: who r u? what does that mean? what do u really have to offer for?