/ http://www.slideshare.net/images/logo.gif / 際際滷Share feed for 際際滷shows by User: JishnuM123 https://cdn.slidesharecdn.com/profile-photo-JishnuM123-48x48.jpg?cb=1523547676 If I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive.