/ http://www.slideshare.net/images/logo.gif / 際際滷Share feed for 際際滷shows by User: mercynkiro https://cdn.slidesharecdn.com/profile-photo-mercynkiro-48x48.jpg?cb=1523428793 I have learn't that: All intimacy is rare -- that's what makes it precious. And it involves the revelation of one's self and the loving gaze upon another's true self (no makeup, no fancy car, no defensive charm, no seduction) -- that's what makes it so damn hard. Intimacy requires honesty and kindness in almost equal measure (a little more kindness, I think), trust and trustworthiness, forgiveness and the capacity to be forgiven . . . It's more than worth it -- just don't let them tell you it's bilss.