I myself am in the process of fully understanding me.Life with its myriad splendor presents itself as both happiness and gloom.A tempered mind is really "a beautiful mind" because it maintains its poise , come what may. "If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster and treat those two impostors just the same", then you can say something about you. Till that time , your perspective of yourself is nothing but an illusion.I don want to present an illusion.:)