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The power of silence
Mohamed Mostafa AboAuf
“ The way to success”
‫الصــمت‬ ‫قوة‬
"
‫النجاح‬ ‫إلى‬ ‫الطريق‬
"
‫بوعوف‬‫أ‬ ‫مصطفى‬ ‫محمد‬

‫من‬ ‫الكثير‬ ‫يهدر‬
‫األحاديث‬ ‫فى‬ ‫أوقاتهم‬ ‫الناس‬
‫عن‬ ‫والجدال‬
‫أ‬
‫سوى‬ ‫لشئ‬ ‫وليس‬ ‫هادفة‬ ‫غير‬ ‫شياء‬
‫الخا‬ ‫المزاج‬ ‫تغيير‬ ‫أو‬ ‫الملل‬ ‫نتيجة‬ ‫الثرثرة‬
‫بهم‬ ‫ص‬
‫تعنيهم‬ ‫ال‬ ‫أشياء‬ ‫لمعرفة‬ ‫الفضول‬ ‫أو‬
‫تكون‬ ‫قد‬ ‫أو‬
‫ا‬ ‫اإلنتشار‬ ‫بعد‬ ‫وخاصة‬ ‫الناس‬ ‫لبعض‬ ‫كهواية‬
‫لكبير‬
‫من‬ ‫به‬ ‫يحدث‬ ‫وما‬ ‫اإلجتماعى‬ ‫التواصل‬ ‫لوسائل‬
‫فى‬ ‫التدخل‬ ‫و‬ ‫الخاصة‬ ‫و‬ ‫العامة‬ ‫لألخبار‬ ‫تبادل‬
‫ه‬ ‫أغلبهم‬ ‫ولكن‬ ،‫لبعض‬ ‫بعضهم‬ ‫الناس‬ ‫شئون‬
‫ؤالء‬
‫من‬ ‫الهامة‬ ‫االوقات‬ ‫تهدر‬ ‫االحاديث‬ ‫هذه‬ ‫أن‬ ‫يجهل‬
‫م‬ ‫أنشطه‬ ‫فى‬ ‫إستغاللها‬ ‫يمكن‬ ‫التى‬ ‫و‬ ‫حياتهم‬
‫ربحة‬
‫مفيدة‬ ‫أو‬
.
‫ال‬ ‫لذلك‬
‫ال‬ ‫الكلمة‬ ‫كانت‬ ‫إذا‬ ،‫عمرك‬ ‫على‬ ‫تساوم‬
‫تى‬
‫ستضيع‬ ‫ستقولها‬
‫وقتك‬ ‫من‬
‫تستفيد‬ ‫ولن‬
‫شئ‬ ‫فى‬ ‫بها‬
‫تقلها‬ ‫لم‬ ‫إن‬ ‫لسانك‬ ‫يتألم‬ ‫فلن‬ ‫فاتركها‬
.
‫الحكمة‬ ‫من‬ ‫الصمت‬
‘
‫فإجعل‬
‫تفكر‬ ‫صمتك‬ ‫من‬
‫وتامل‬
‫ألحد‬ ‫تسمح‬ ‫ال‬ ‫و‬
‫يقوم‬ ‫أو‬ ‫بك‬ ‫يوقع‬ ‫أن‬
‫غنى‬ ‫فى‬ ‫أنت‬ ‫مشكلة‬ ‫فى‬ ‫للدخول‬ ‫بإستدراجك‬
‫عنها‬
‫تخصك‬ ‫وال‬ ‫عنها‬ ‫بعيد‬ ‫أو‬
.
Many people waste their time by talking and arguing
about pointless things, and nothing but gossip as a
result of boredom, changing their mood or curiosity
to know things that not related to them or may be as
a hobby for some people, especially after the
booming of the social media and the exchange of
general news and Private issues and interfering in
people’s affairs for each other, but most of them
don’t know that these conversations are wasting the
important times in their live which could be exploited
in profitable and beneficial activities.
Therefore, do not compromise on your age, if the
word you will say will waste your time and will not
benefit you, leave it, as your tongue will not be
suffered if you do not say it.
Silence is a wisdom, so make your silence as a
thinking and meditate and don’t allow for anyone to
set you up or lure you into a problem not related to
you or far from you and you don't concern about.

‫صمت‬
‫ا‬ً‫خبر‬ ‫ليس‬ ‫أنه‬ ‫كما‬ ، ‫وداعة‬ ‫وال‬ ‫ا‬ً‫ف‬‫ضع‬ ‫ليس‬ ‫األسد‬
،‫سار‬
‫لحظة‬ ‫هو‬ ‫بل‬
‫تامل‬
‫وان‬
، ‫تظار‬
‫وقت‬
‫حقيقي‬ ‫جوهرى‬
(
‫اإلفتراس‬ ‫للحظة‬ ‫ترقب‬
.)
-
‫فرانسيس‬
‫أكوا‬
-
‫بايدو‬
the silence of a lion is not a weakness nor meekness, neither is it a welcoming news but a moment for
watching and waiting, time of real essence.
- Francis Acquah-Baidoo

To be silent does not mean that you are shy or afraid to speak with
the people, but you do not want to talk about useless discussions, as
you should know that your silence is a reason for listening to others
to giving your mind the full opportunity for taking the right decisions.
Islam has urged us to not talking about what not related to us, and if
we want to talk we should taking with good words, as mentioned in
the hadith on the authority of Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased
with him) reported:
The Prophet ( (
‫ﷺ‬ said, "He who believes in Allah and the Last Day
must either speak good or remain silent“ [Muslim].
‫ول‬ ‫الكالم‬ ‫لتخشى‬ ‫او‬ ‫خجول‬ ‫انك‬ ‫يعنى‬ ‫ال‬ ‫هذا‬ ‫صامتا‬ ‫تكون‬ ‫أن‬
‫كنك‬
‫أن‬ ‫تعلم‬ ‫أن‬ ‫يجب‬ ‫حيث‬ ‫منه‬ ‫الجدوى‬ ‫كالم‬ ‫فى‬ ‫التحدث‬ ‫التريد‬
‫الفرصة‬ ‫عقلك‬ ‫إعطاء‬ ‫و‬ ‫االخرون‬ ‫إلى‬ ‫لإلصغاء‬ ‫سبب‬ ‫صمتك‬
‫الصائبة‬ ‫القرارات‬ ‫إلتخاذ‬ ‫الكاملة‬
.
‫تكل‬ ‫وإن‬ ‫يعنينا‬ ‫ال‬ ‫فيما‬ ‫التحدث‬ ‫عدم‬ ‫على‬ ‫اإلسالم‬ ‫حث‬ ‫فقد‬
‫بأن‬ ‫منا‬
‫عن‬ ‫الشريف‬ ‫الحديث‬ ‫فى‬ ‫جاء‬ ‫كما‬ ،‫الخير‬ ‫فيه‬ ‫بما‬ ‫نتكلم‬
‫أب‬
‫هريرة‬ ‫ي‬
‫قال‬ ‫وسلم‬ ‫عليه‬ ‫هللا‬ ‫صلى‬ ‫النبي‬ ‫عن‬ ‫عنه‬ ‫هللا‬ ‫رضي‬
:
"
‫ك‬ ‫من‬
‫ان‬
‫ليصمت‬ ‫أو‬ ،‫ا‬ً‫خير‬ ‫فليقل‬ ،‫اآلخر‬ ‫واليوم‬ ‫باهلل‬ ‫يؤمن‬
"
(
(
‫مت‬
‫عليه‬ ‫فق‬
)
)
.
‫هنريت‬ ‫وليم‬ ‫يقول‬
" :
‫الكالم‬ ‫فنون‬ ‫من‬ ّ‫فن‬ ‫الصمت‬
"
‫ه‬ ‫اللغة‬ ‫هذه‬ ‫إستخدام‬ ‫فن‬ ‫من‬ ‫فإن‬ ‫لغة‬ ‫الصمت‬ ‫أن‬ ‫إعتبرنا‬ ‫إذا‬
‫وه‬
‫كان‬ ‫سواء‬ ‫شئ‬ ‫عنهم‬ ‫تخفى‬ ‫بانك‬ ‫إحساس‬ ‫الناس‬ ‫إعطاء‬ ‫عدم‬
‫الفريق‬ ‫او‬ ‫االصدقاء‬ ‫او‬ ‫االقارب‬ ‫او‬ ‫الزمالء‬ ‫هم‬ ‫اناس‬ ‫هؤالء‬
‫أو‬ ‫تفتخر‬ ‫بانك‬ ‫اليشعرون‬ ‫حتى‬ ‫بالعمل‬ ‫معك‬ ‫يعمل‬ ‫الذى‬
‫تقصد‬
‫دون‬ ‫أمامهم‬ ‫مفتوح‬ ‫كتاب‬ ‫وكانك‬ ‫تحدث‬ ‫بل‬ ‫عنهم‬ ‫اشياء‬ ‫إخفاء‬
‫أن‬
‫تخفى‬ ‫قد‬ ‫بما‬ ‫تشعرهم‬
.
William Henriette says, “Silence is one of the arts of speech.”
If we considered that the silence is a language, so the art of using
this language is to not make the people feeling that you hide
something from them, whether these people are colleagues,
relatives, friends or the team that works with you at work, so that
they do not feel that you are proud or that you mean to hide
things from them, but on the speak with them as an open book,
without making them aware of what you might hide.

‫إ‬
‫جيدا‬ ‫عمل‬
‫الضجيج‬ ‫يصنع‬ ‫النجاح‬ ‫ودع‬ ، ‫صمت‬ ‫في‬
.
-
‫فرانك‬
‫أوشن‬
Work hard in silence, let success make the noise.
– Frank Ocean

‫او‬ ‫العمل‬ ‫فى‬ ‫سواء‬ ‫أخطاء‬ ‫من‬ ‫تراه‬ ‫قد‬ ‫ما‬ ‫عن‬ ‫تصمت‬ ‫أن‬ ‫بالصمت‬ ‫المقصود‬ ‫ليس‬
‫بين‬
‫ال‬ ‫التى‬ ‫األحاديث‬ ‫عن‬ ‫تصمت‬ ‫ولكنك‬ ‫به‬ ‫تعيش‬ ‫الذى‬ ‫المجتمع‬ ‫فى‬ ‫او‬ ‫االصدقاء‬
‫معنى‬
‫صم‬ ‫مع‬ ‫وحيدا‬ ‫تكون‬ ‫بأن‬ ‫أيضا‬ ‫المقصود‬ ‫وليس‬ ‫أحد‬ ‫تفيد‬ ‫او‬ ‫تفيدك‬ ‫ولن‬ ‫لها‬
‫لكن‬ ‫و‬ ‫تك‬
‫لسانك‬ ‫قبل‬ ‫بعقلك‬ ‫معهم‬ ‫وتفاعل‬ ‫األخرين‬ ‫مع‬ ‫كن‬
.
Silence does not mean that you remain silent about what you may
see of mistakes, whether at work or among friends or in the society
in which you live, but you need to be silent about the conversations
that are meaningless and will not benefit you or anyone. It is not
also intended to be alone with your silence, but be with others and
interact with them by your mind before your tongue.

‫في‬ ‫تحرك‬
،‫صمت‬
‫فقط‬ ‫تحدث‬
‫يحين‬ ‫عندما‬
‫ملك‬ ‫كش‬ ‫لقول‬ ‫الوقت‬
!
Move in silence. Only speak when it's time to say checkmate!

-
‫يجعل‬
‫ف‬ ،‫األخرين‬ ‫من‬ ‫تقدير‬ ‫ومحل‬ ‫وواثق‬ ‫قويا‬ ‫شخصا‬ ‫الصمت‬ ‫منك‬
‫أنت‬
‫ي‬ ‫فذلك‬ ،‫الحديث‬ ‫لمجرد‬ ‫حديث‬ ‫باى‬ ‫تدلى‬ ‫وال‬ ‫سبب‬ ‫بدون‬ ‫تتحدث‬ ‫ال‬
‫منك‬ ‫جعل‬
‫النصيحة‬ ‫أحدهم‬ ‫منك‬ ‫طلب‬ ‫إذا‬ ‫رايه‬ ‫فى‬ ‫موثوقا‬ ‫شخصا‬
.
- Silence makes you strong, confident person and appreciated by
others, as you do not speak without a reason and do not make any
talk just for the sake of talking. So that, this makes you a reliable
person in his opinion if someone asked you for advice.
-
‫لل‬ ‫فترة‬ ‫يعطيك‬ ‫فالصمت‬ ،‫كبير‬ ‫بشكل‬ ‫الناس‬ ‫قراءة‬ ‫تتعلم‬ ‫يجعلك‬
‫المراقبة‬ ‫و‬ ‫تامل‬
‫و‬ ‫وضوحا‬ ‫أكثر‬ ‫بشكل‬ ‫مايريده‬ ‫تفهم‬ ‫ممايجعلك‬ ‫إليك‬ ‫للمتحدث‬ ‫واإلنصات‬
‫تعلم‬ ‫قد‬
‫ال‬ ‫أم‬ ‫الحقيقة‬ ‫يقول‬ ‫أنه‬
.
- Silence makes you learn how to read people good. Silence gives
you a period of contemplation, observation and listening to the
speaker, which makes you understand his needs more clearly and
may makes you know if he is telling the truth or not.
‫الصمت؟‬ ‫لماذا‬
Why silence?

-
‫ب‬ ‫منك‬ ‫ويشعر‬ ‫االصدقاء‬ ‫أحد‬ ‫إلى‬ ‫لتنصت‬ ‫تصمت‬ ‫عندما‬ ‫محبوبا‬ ‫شخصا‬ ‫يجعلك‬
‫المشاركه‬
‫الصادق‬ ‫البصرى‬ ‫التواصل‬ ‫و‬ ‫الصامته‬ ‫إيماءتك‬ ‫طريق‬ ‫عن‬ ‫يقوله‬ ‫لما‬ ‫واإلهتمام‬
.
If the words came out of your mouth you will not be able to take it back.
So, the silence trains your mind to think well before speaking with
something, especially in some quarrels that may occur with others, this to
not say any word that may makes you lose a relationship with someone.
So that, when you feel that you may say something not good, take a deep
breath and think about the results of your saying and remember that a
word is like a bullet, if it gone out, you will not be able to take it back.
Silence makes you a likable person when you shut up to listen to one of your
friends and makes him feel that you share and care about what he is saying
by your silent gesture and honest eye contact.
-
‫عل‬ ‫عقلك‬ ‫يدرب‬ ‫فالصمت‬ ‫لذلك‬ ،‫إستعادته‬ ‫يمكنك‬ ‫ال‬ ‫فإنه‬ ‫فمك‬ ‫من‬ ‫الكالم‬ ‫خرج‬ ‫إذا‬
‫التفكير‬ ‫ى‬
‫ا‬ ‫مع‬ ‫مع‬ ‫تحدث‬ ‫قد‬ ‫التى‬ ‫المشاحنات‬ ‫بعض‬ ‫فى‬ ‫وخاصة‬ ‫بشئ‬ ‫تتحدث‬ ‫أن‬ ‫قبل‬ ‫الجيد‬
‫الخرين‬
‫ب‬ ‫تشعر‬ ‫عندما‬ ‫لذلك‬ ‫األشخاص‬ ‫بأحد‬ ‫عالقتك‬ ‫بها‬ ‫تخسر‬ ‫قد‬ ‫بكلمة‬ ‫تتفوه‬ ‫ال‬ ‫حتى‬
‫تقول‬ ‫قد‬ ‫انك‬
‫مث‬ ‫الكلمة‬ ‫أن‬ ‫وتذكر‬ ‫قولك‬ ‫عواقب‬ ‫فى‬ ‫وفكر‬ ‫و‬ ‫عميقا‬ ‫نفسا‬ ‫خذ‬ ‫به‬ ‫مرغوب‬ ‫غير‬ ‫شئ‬
‫ل‬
‫إعادتها‬ ‫يمكنك‬ ‫ال‬ ‫إنطلقت‬ ‫إذا‬ ‫الرصاصة‬
.
Why silence?

-
‫يمكن‬
‫اال‬ ‫الطريقة‬ ‫إلى‬ ‫يوجهك‬ ‫حيث‬ ‫التفاوض‬ ‫فى‬ ‫رائعة‬ ‫أداة‬ ‫الصمت‬ ‫يكون‬ ‫أن‬
‫فضل‬
‫إنفعاالت‬ ‫أو‬ ‫تشويش‬ ‫أى‬ ‫دون‬ ‫االشخاص‬ ‫مع‬ ‫للتفاوض‬
.
-
‫حيث‬ ،‫التامل‬ ‫هواة‬ ‫من‬ ‫االشخاص‬ ‫عند‬ ‫ذلك‬ ‫يظهر‬ ‫حيث‬ ‫التوتر‬ ‫من‬ ‫الصمت‬ ‫يقلل‬
‫هم‬ ‫ما‬ ‫او‬ ‫البريه‬ ‫الحياة‬ ‫او‬ ‫الغروب‬ ‫فى‬ ‫متاملين‬ ‫هادئ‬ ‫مكان‬ ‫فى‬ ‫صامتين‬ ‫يجلسون‬
‫مهتمين‬
‫بتأمله‬
.
Silence can be a great tool in the negotiation, as it directs you to the
best way to negotiate with people without any confusion or emotions.
Silence reducing the tension, as shown in people whom are meditating
enthusiasts, as they sit silently in a quiet place and contemplating the
sunset or wildlife or what they are interested in contemplating.
Why silence?

-
‫فى‬ ‫االنخراط‬ ‫و‬ ‫التركيز‬ ‫زيادة‬ ‫فى‬ ‫عقلك‬ ‫يساعد‬ ‫حيث‬ ‫اإلبداع‬ ‫يعزز‬ ‫الصمت‬
‫او‬ ‫تطوير‬
‫جديد‬ ‫هو‬ ‫ما‬ ‫فى‬ ‫التفكير‬
.
- Silence enhancing the creativity, as it helps your brain to focus and
engage in developing or thinking about the new.
-
‫عيوبك‬ ‫و‬ ‫إمكانياتك‬ ‫هى‬ ‫ما‬ ‫حيث‬ ‫من‬ ‫نفسك‬ ‫وفهم‬ ‫بإكتشاف‬ ‫الصمت‬ ‫لك‬ ‫يسمح‬
‫كذلك‬ ‫و‬
‫أهداف‬ ‫وتحقيق‬ ‫تحديد‬ ‫على‬ ‫ممايساعدك‬ ‫تامة‬ ‫بصراحة‬ ‫عندك‬ ‫الضعف‬ ‫و‬ ‫القوة‬ ‫نقط‬
‫ك‬
.
- Silence allows you to discover and understand yourself in terms of your
capabilities and flaws, as well as your strengths and weaknesses with
complete frankness, which helps you to define and achieve your goals.
Why silence?

Make throw the secrets and words that may
cause in a strife inside your deep, to be as a
deep of the ocean which no one knows about
and it is not easy to dive into it.
‫الت‬ ‫الكلمات‬ ‫و‬ ‫باالسرار‬ ‫القى‬
‫ى‬
‫الفتن‬ ‫تحدث‬ ‫قد‬
‫قاع‬ ‫فى‬
‫ش‬ ‫عنه‬ ‫أحد‬ ‫يعلم‬ ‫ال‬ ‫الذى‬ ‫المحيط‬ ‫قاع‬ ‫مثل‬ ‫بداخلك‬
‫ئ‬
‫فيه‬ ‫الغوص‬ ‫يسهل‬ ‫وال‬
.

‫الوقت‬ ‫إضاعة‬ ‫بعدم‬ ‫ونفسي‬ ‫أذكركم‬ ‫النهاية‬ ‫فى‬
‫ب‬
‫نافعة‬ ‫الغير‬ ‫باالحاديث‬ ‫اإلهتمام‬
‫المست‬ ‫فى‬ ‫ستصبح‬ ‫النها‬ ‫أفعالكم‬ ‫تراقبو‬ ‫وبأن‬
‫فى‬ ‫وتأمل‬ ‫العادات‬ ‫من‬ ‫قبل‬
‫العقل‬ ‫لتطوير‬ ‫السبيل‬ ‫فهو‬ ‫تراه‬ ‫وما‬ ‫تسمعه‬ ‫ما‬
.
In the end, I remind you and myself not to waste time with paying attention to useless conversations, consider your actions
as its will be a habits in the future and contemplating in what you hear and see, as it is the way to develop your mind.

Thank you
‫لكم‬ ‫شكرا‬

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