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Healthy
Relationships
Fe brua ry 1 1 ,
    201 3
Co nflic t Re -
  So lutio n
PURPOSE
Divorcing the past to advance into the
                future.
IFW AR F
    E E OCUS D ON TH F
             E       E UTUR , W H
                           E E AVE
    NO TIM TO F IR W
          E    L T ITHTH P T.
                         E AS
CONF ICT
                        L
Conflict begins and ends with US as INDIVIDUAL . We
                                ,              S
have E NTIR L TOO M
            EY        ANY AR  GUM NTSW IN
                                  E       ITH
OUR E VE . These AR
    SL S             GUM NTSdont allow us to hear and
                          E
TR T ANYONEW O ISATTE P
  US               H          M TING TO GUIDEUSIN
TH R T DIR CTION.
  E IGH        E
 OURFUTURE                                  TH P T
                                              E AS
Going to the show.
Do you hear strange voices at times?
The v o ic e o f the p a s t is the v o ic e o f F IL
                                                   AM IA-R       ITY; A tim e s
                                                                        t
     the
v o ic e o f the p a s t is lo ud e r tha n the v o ic e o f the future
     be c a us e we
like to be c o m fo rta ble a nd d o wha t fe e ls g o o d to us .
     E verything
that tastes good is not good for us.
When m m changes, m will
       y ind            y
  and emotions will change.




     M M ~ W AT I TH
      y ind     H      INK
     M W ~ W AT I W
      y ill    H     ANT
     M E otions ~ H
      y m          OWI F E
                        EL
R OL
                        e-S UTION
   A Re-Solution is an issue TH H AL E
                                AT AS R ADY B E S VE B
                                             E N OL D Y
    S E
     OM ONEE S .
               LE




    This is a problem that has already been solved by someone
       else.
    Someone taught us how to solve the problem therefore
       when we
    encounter this S Eproblem it must be re-solved by us.
                    AM

    A two year old does not know TH ANS E to this problem
                                   E     WR
       nor
    does he understand why this problem needs to be R -
                                                     E
Been There, Done That.
W isdom K W do not have to think about
         ey: e
problem or issues that have already been solved
       s
by OTH R .
      ES
S m
                              um ary
   Co nflic t be g ins a nd e nd s with US a s INDIVIDUAL .
                                                ,               S
   ARe -So lutio n is a n is s ue TH H AL E
                                         AT AS R ADY B E S VE BE N OL D Y
    S E
     OM ONEE S .   LE
   The v o ic e o f the p a s t is the v o ic e o f F IL
                                                      AM IA-RITY; At tim the
                                                                           es
   voice of the past is louder than the voice of the future.
   Whe n m y m ind c ha ng e s , m y will a nd e m o tio ns will c ha ng e .

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  • 1. Healthy Relationships Fe brua ry 1 1 , 201 3 Co nflic t Re - So lutio n
  • 2. PURPOSE Divorcing the past to advance into the future.
  • 3. IFW AR F E E OCUS D ON TH F E E UTUR , W H E E AVE NO TIM TO F IR W E L T ITHTH P T. E AS
  • 4. CONF ICT L Conflict begins and ends with US as INDIVIDUAL . We , S have E NTIR L TOO M EY ANY AR GUM NTSW IN E ITH OUR E VE . These AR SL S GUM NTSdont allow us to hear and E TR T ANYONEW O ISATTE P US H M TING TO GUIDEUSIN TH R T DIR CTION. E IGH E OURFUTURE TH P T E AS
  • 5. Going to the show.
  • 6. Do you hear strange voices at times? The v o ic e o f the p a s t is the v o ic e o f F IL AM IA-R ITY; A tim e s t the v o ic e o f the p a s t is lo ud e r tha n the v o ic e o f the future be c a us e we like to be c o m fo rta ble a nd d o wha t fe e ls g o o d to us . E verything that tastes good is not good for us.
  • 7. When m m changes, m will y ind y and emotions will change. M M ~ W AT I TH y ind H INK M W ~ W AT I W y ill H ANT M E otions ~ H y m OWI F E EL
  • 8. R OL e-S UTION A Re-Solution is an issue TH H AL E AT AS R ADY B E S VE B E N OL D Y S E OM ONEE S . LE This is a problem that has already been solved by someone else. Someone taught us how to solve the problem therefore when we encounter this S Eproblem it must be re-solved by us. AM A two year old does not know TH ANS E to this problem E WR nor does he understand why this problem needs to be R - E
  • 10. W isdom K W do not have to think about ey: e problem or issues that have already been solved s by OTH R . ES
  • 11. S m um ary Co nflic t be g ins a nd e nd s with US a s INDIVIDUAL . , S ARe -So lutio n is a n is s ue TH H AL E AT AS R ADY B E S VE BE N OL D Y S E OM ONEE S . LE The v o ic e o f the p a s t is the v o ic e o f F IL AM IA-RITY; At tim the es voice of the past is louder than the voice of the future. Whe n m y m ind c ha ng e s , m y will a nd e m o tio ns will c ha ng e .