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Healthy
Relationships
M rc h 4, 2 0 1 3
 a
 Co nflic t Re -
   So lutio n
 (The Fig ht Within)
S m R
                     um ary e-View
   We R olve c o nflic t by be ing honest with o urs e lv e s .
           e-S
   We will ha v e m uc h ins ta bility in o ur future s if we a lwa y s g e t wha t we
    wa nt NOW      .
   So m e o ne ha s to win a nd s o m e o ne ha s to lo s e . Bo th p a rtie s c a nno t win
    in a c o nflic t s itua tio n.
   The ro o t o f c o nflic t is sE F H S , W I say goes cause I am in
                                    L IS NE S     hat
    control.
PURPOSE

Divorcing the past to advance into the
                future.
Conflict
 The fight we have with the past is a self-
  affliction. We ha ve be e n to rn be twe e n two
  lo ve rs (Our future and the past) be c a us e
  we ha ve a te nd e nc y to be INDE IVE
                                     CIS .
  W does this m
     hat             ean?
We s a y o ne thing a nd d o a no the r thing
  CON-TR Y to wha t we s p o ke .
        AR
                    The past will put us to
                    S E Presulting in
                     LE
                    CONF ICT.
                         L
CS Topic ~ Inform
      S             ation Management
 There are OPINIONS
 There are FACTS


    And there is the   TRUTH!


             TRUTHMINIM SCONF ICT.
                       IZE   L
Healthy Relationships - Conflict Resolution pt.3
We m a na g e info rm a tio n a c c o rd ing to OUR
 NE DS NOT OURW
    E ,                  ANTS(or desires).
The s a fe s t wa y to m a na g e info rm a tio n is
 by TH TR
       E UTHbe c a us e the truth NE R         VE
 CH ANGE .  S


                          The key that will
                        unlock the door of
                              Success is
                             P NOW! ITY.
                   M ETH DE ION
                    AK  IS CIS
                               RIOR
YOU AR NOT W L
              E     E COM H R !
                         E EE
We a re no t to a llo w unidentified p e o p le into o ur
ho m e s (lives). I the y wa nt a c c e s s the y NE D to c a ll
                    f                                 E
be fo re the y c o m e . Then.
1 . Ring the door bell or knock on the door : Alerts us someone wants to
   com in.
       e
2. L through the keyhole  ID the person; L them in if we trust them
    ook                                        et                       .
   They m wait in order for us to let them in (TR T).
          ust                                        US
3. Take off your shoes : You will not bring dirt into our house. R M
                                                                  E AIN
   IN TH F ONT R
         E R       OOM   !




Everyone and everything should knock or ring the doorbell before entering
   the
P vs P
 ast  urpose
S m
                                um ary
 The fight we have with the past is a self-affliction.
 TR UTHM     INIM SCONF ICT.
                    IZE          L
 We m a na g e info rm a tio n a c c o rd ing to OURNE DS NOT OURW
                                                           E ,           ANTS(or
  desires).
 The s a fe s t wa y to m a na g e info rm a tio n is by TH TR
                                                            E UTHbe c a us e the truth
  NE RCH
    VE         ANGE . S
 Everyone and everything should knock or ring the doorbell before
  entering the
  house (our lives).

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Healthy Relationships - Conflict Resolution pt.3

  • 1. Healthy Relationships M rc h 4, 2 0 1 3 a Co nflic t Re - So lutio n (The Fig ht Within)
  • 2. S m R um ary e-View We R olve c o nflic t by be ing honest with o urs e lv e s . e-S We will ha v e m uc h ins ta bility in o ur future s if we a lwa y s g e t wha t we wa nt NOW . So m e o ne ha s to win a nd s o m e o ne ha s to lo s e . Bo th p a rtie s c a nno t win in a c o nflic t s itua tio n. The ro o t o f c o nflic t is sE F H S , W I say goes cause I am in L IS NE S hat control.
  • 3. PURPOSE Divorcing the past to advance into the future.
  • 4. Conflict The fight we have with the past is a self- affliction. We ha ve be e n to rn be twe e n two lo ve rs (Our future and the past) be c a us e we ha ve a te nd e nc y to be INDE IVE CIS . W does this m hat ean? We s a y o ne thing a nd d o a no the r thing CON-TR Y to wha t we s p o ke . AR The past will put us to S E Presulting in LE CONF ICT. L
  • 5. CS Topic ~ Inform S ation Management There are OPINIONS There are FACTS And there is the TRUTH! TRUTHMINIM SCONF ICT. IZE L
  • 7. We m a na g e info rm a tio n a c c o rd ing to OUR NE DS NOT OURW E , ANTS(or desires). The s a fe s t wa y to m a na g e info rm a tio n is by TH TR E UTHbe c a us e the truth NE R VE CH ANGE . S The key that will unlock the door of Success is P NOW! ITY. M ETH DE ION AK IS CIS RIOR
  • 8. YOU AR NOT W L E E COM H R ! E EE We a re no t to a llo w unidentified p e o p le into o ur ho m e s (lives). I the y wa nt a c c e s s the y NE D to c a ll f E be fo re the y c o m e . Then. 1 . Ring the door bell or knock on the door : Alerts us someone wants to com in. e 2. L through the keyhole ID the person; L them in if we trust them ook et . They m wait in order for us to let them in (TR T). ust US 3. Take off your shoes : You will not bring dirt into our house. R M E AIN IN TH F ONT R E R OOM ! Everyone and everything should knock or ring the doorbell before entering the
  • 9. P vs P ast urpose
  • 10. S m um ary The fight we have with the past is a self-affliction. TR UTHM INIM SCONF ICT. IZE L We m a na g e info rm a tio n a c c o rd ing to OURNE DS NOT OURW E , ANTS(or desires). The s a fe s t wa y to m a na g e info rm a tio n is by TH TR E UTHbe c a us e the truth NE RCH VE ANGE . S Everyone and everything should knock or ring the doorbell before entering the house (our lives).

Editor's Notes

  1. I want what you owe me NOW. I know we agreed that you would pay me next week, but I need that money now cause Im trying to buy a car. BUT You dont even have a license.
  2. One female (Past) is visiting a guy who is married to another female (Future). The male doesnt know what to do. (INDECISIVENESS causes CONFLICT).