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Its not an Agile Story
Apollo-Dionysus 	
Dilemma
Ying - Yang	
Order-Chaos	
Black - Red	
Sun - Moon	
Day - Night
The items on the Right Vs The items on the Left!
Individuals and interactions over processes and tools
!
Working software over comprehensive documentation
!
Customer collaboration over contract negotiation
!
Responding to change over following a plan
Agile is Dead
Agile is Dead
Balance - Slayer of this nemesis
Although we have not embraced this balance successfully yet,
we as an Agile community acknowledge the need for one.
Thats progress!
With that HOPE I begin
It's not an agile story
HER	
All representations in this presentation are mostly
alluded to one gender to emphasise on the qualities
related to feelings which is conventionally referred
as feminine. However I as an individual do not
subscribe to that norm entirely!
!
!
All the paintings in this presentation are done by
Shilo Shiv Suleman one of the fiercest artist I have
ever known.
DISCLAIMER	
!
The idea of the presentation is not to let people
judge, but use this as a means to better understand
the self via the surrounding
!
I could be totally WRONG with my current
understanding of certain behaviours and I will
leave that decision to the participants discretion
Human fallacy is acknowledged but not dealt with
in many organisations. We barely even scratch the
surface!
!
(possible) reasons,
No Tangible immediate results
!
Fear of confrontation
!
Way too complex
!
Social Conditioning
!
Individual Process
An humble attempt to DEMYSTIFY this complex web
of behaviour through fictional characters based on
OK-OK corral (Based on Transactional Analysis)
Distressed Damsel
I am Not Ok - You are Ok
Perennial Cynic
I am Not Ok - You are Not Ok
Pragmatic Adult
I am Ok - You are Ok
Insolent Genius
I am Ok - You are Not Ok
Insolent Genius
I am Ok - You are Not Ok
!
OverConfident
Know-It All
Do not listen
Dominant
STRATEGIES
Build Trust/Mutual Respect
Be Assertive
Help them see Value in their peers
TOOLS
2 Chair Technique
Professional /Psychological Contracts
1-0-1s and Interventions
Sandwich Strokes
Trust Exercise
Ego Gram
Theme - Get-Rid-Of
Payoff- Furious, Burned up
Distressed Damsel
I am Not Ok - You are Ok
!
Submissive
Subservient
Silent
Not-Confident
STRATEGIES
Give positive strokes
Be supportive
Be compassionate yet be strong
Give responsibility and allow mistakes
TOOLS
2 Chair Technique
Professional /Psychological Contracts
1-0-1s and Interventions
Positive Strokes
Ego Gram
Theme - Get-Away-From
Payoff- Embarrassed
Perennial Cynic
I am Not Ok - You are Not Ok
!
Cynical
Regressive
Passive Aggressive
Futile
STRATEGIES
Be logical
Solution Focused
Talk about options
Help them pick an available option
TOOLS
2 Chair Technique
Admin/ Professional /Psychological Contracts
Value Vs Practice Mapping exercise
Ego Gram
Theme - Go-Nowhere-With
Payoff - Humiliated
Pragmatic Adult
I am Ok - You are Ok
!
Positive
Open to ideas
Assertive
Forward looking
Solution Oriented
Non-Judgemental
Active Listener
Acts on here and now
Healthy Space to be in!
Theme - Get-On-With
Payoff- Joyful, Jubilant
Every Individual exhibit traits of all these
characters. However there is one dominant
element !
ALL CHARACTERS ARE REQUIRED TO SUSTAIN
BALANCE
However Pragmatic Adult is the desired life position
It's not an agile story
Path to Self-Realisation
TOOLS
Journal
Supervision
All the other tools mentioned earlier
BE fearless 	
Embrace the feminine with a tad bit of logic. 	
You will Go places!
It's not an agile story

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It's not an agile story

  • 1. Its not an Agile Story
  • 2. Apollo-Dionysus Dilemma Ying - Yang Order-Chaos Black - Red Sun - Moon Day - Night
  • 3. The items on the Right Vs The items on the Left! Individuals and interactions over processes and tools ! Working software over comprehensive documentation ! Customer collaboration over contract negotiation ! Responding to change over following a plan
  • 5. Agile is Dead Balance - Slayer of this nemesis
  • 6. Although we have not embraced this balance successfully yet, we as an Agile community acknowledge the need for one. Thats progress! With that HOPE I begin
  • 8. HER All representations in this presentation are mostly alluded to one gender to emphasise on the qualities related to feelings which is conventionally referred as feminine. However I as an individual do not subscribe to that norm entirely! ! ! All the paintings in this presentation are done by Shilo Shiv Suleman one of the fiercest artist I have ever known.
  • 9. DISCLAIMER ! The idea of the presentation is not to let people judge, but use this as a means to better understand the self via the surrounding ! I could be totally WRONG with my current understanding of certain behaviours and I will leave that decision to the participants discretion
  • 10. Human fallacy is acknowledged but not dealt with in many organisations. We barely even scratch the surface! ! (possible) reasons, No Tangible immediate results ! Fear of confrontation ! Way too complex ! Social Conditioning ! Individual Process
  • 11. An humble attempt to DEMYSTIFY this complex web of behaviour through fictional characters based on OK-OK corral (Based on Transactional Analysis)
  • 12. Distressed Damsel I am Not Ok - You are Ok Perennial Cynic I am Not Ok - You are Not Ok Pragmatic Adult I am Ok - You are Ok Insolent Genius I am Ok - You are Not Ok
  • 13. Insolent Genius I am Ok - You are Not Ok ! OverConfident Know-It All Do not listen Dominant STRATEGIES Build Trust/Mutual Respect Be Assertive Help them see Value in their peers TOOLS 2 Chair Technique Professional /Psychological Contracts 1-0-1s and Interventions Sandwich Strokes Trust Exercise Ego Gram Theme - Get-Rid-Of Payoff- Furious, Burned up
  • 14. Distressed Damsel I am Not Ok - You are Ok ! Submissive Subservient Silent Not-Confident STRATEGIES Give positive strokes Be supportive Be compassionate yet be strong Give responsibility and allow mistakes TOOLS 2 Chair Technique Professional /Psychological Contracts 1-0-1s and Interventions Positive Strokes Ego Gram Theme - Get-Away-From Payoff- Embarrassed
  • 15. Perennial Cynic I am Not Ok - You are Not Ok ! Cynical Regressive Passive Aggressive Futile STRATEGIES Be logical Solution Focused Talk about options Help them pick an available option TOOLS 2 Chair Technique Admin/ Professional /Psychological Contracts Value Vs Practice Mapping exercise Ego Gram Theme - Go-Nowhere-With Payoff - Humiliated
  • 16. Pragmatic Adult I am Ok - You are Ok ! Positive Open to ideas Assertive Forward looking Solution Oriented Non-Judgemental Active Listener Acts on here and now Healthy Space to be in! Theme - Get-On-With Payoff- Joyful, Jubilant
  • 17. Every Individual exhibit traits of all these characters. However there is one dominant element ! ALL CHARACTERS ARE REQUIRED TO SUSTAIN BALANCE However Pragmatic Adult is the desired life position
  • 19. Path to Self-Realisation TOOLS Journal Supervision All the other tools mentioned earlier
  • 20. BE fearless Embrace the feminine with a tad bit of logic. You will Go places!