This document discusses signs of infatuation versus true love, dating culture, and biblical perspectives on relationships. It provides advice for discerning real love through understanding:
1) Common signs of infatuation like physical attraction, changing interests, isolation, and possessiveness.
2) Dating should lead to courtship and marriage, not short-term recreational relationships.
3) Parents should be involved in relationships according to the Bible, and disobeying them has consequences. True love means being willing to wait and prioritizing God.
5. Kahit ilang beses pa akong
masaktan ng dahil sayo.. Di kita
iiwan di ako susuko. Kahit may 100
dahilan para iwan kita.. Hahanap pa
rin ako ng isang dahilan para
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7. 1. THE AXE- EFFECT
-> Pagkagusto sa Pisikal na atraksyon
-> UY AY GROUP
-> matapos makita ang kahinaan,
nawawala ang paghangang
nararamdaman
8. 2. KISAP-MATA COMPLEX
-> Hindi na siya ang dating
nagustuhan ko, Nagbago na Siya
-> Ang mga Infatuated, kapag hindi
na nag-enjoy, unti- unting
mawawala ang interes sa
relasyon.
9. 3. THE CRAZY FOR YOU SYNDROME
-> Infatuation can make a person
disorganized, distracted and
ineffective.
10. 4. JUST- THE- TWO- OF- US
FEELING
-> Infatuated people often isolate
themselves from others.
-> HHWWPSSP ( holding hands
while walking, pa sway sway pa )
-> Ngayon, kailangan pang itanong
sa BF/GF kung pwede siyang
sumama.
11. 5.THE NEED YOU HERE SICKNESS
-> KAPAG HINDI NA NAKIKITA,
NAHAHAWAKAN O
NAKAKAUSAP ANG PARTNER,
UNTI-UNTING NANLALAMIG
ANG DAMDAMIN HANGGANG
SA MAWALAN NA NG
INTERES.
13. 6. KUNG AYAW MO, HUWAG MO
PROBLEM
-> Madalas na ang LQ, nagiging
self-centered.
-> Ang madalas na away/ bati ay tanda
ng lumalaking lamat ng relasyon, kung
gusto ng makipag break ng isa sa
kanila, NO BIG DEAL.
15. 7. AKIN KA LANG ATTITUDE
-> jealousy becomes a part of
the relationship
-> Gusto kong lumigaya ka,
pero huwag ka ng titingin sa
iba
17. -> There is no LFS but AFS
(Attraction at first Sight)
-> We are not Compatible
-> LOVE is like a PLANT that
needs to be WATERED,
CULTIVATED, NURTURED,
to GROW.
20. -> RECREATIONAL DATING
- NAGIGING PAMPASAYA LANG
ANG PAKIKIPAG-
BF/GF DAHIL HINDI SERYOSO SA
TUNAY NITONG LAYUNIN.
21. COMMON TERMS:
Mag- Syota (Short-time)
Mag-on (as if pwedeng i-off)
Mag- Jowa
Mag- Molmol (make out,
make out lang)
22. The MODERN DATING
SYSYTEM does not
train young people to
pursue a committed,
long term- relationship.
23. -> tinitingnan ng iba ang pakikipag-
relasyon na parang TEST DRIVING
pero hindi lang ito kundi nagiging
WRECKED DRIVING, bago pa man
makakuha ng lisensiya sandamukal na
kotse na ang naibangga at nasira.
-> kaya bago ikasal, napakarami na ang
nakarelasyon at gula-gulanit na ang
puso sa maraming break-ups na
naranasan.
25. 1. PEER PRESSURE
2. SOLUTION TO PREVIOUS BREAK-UP
3. FAMILY ISSUES
4. WALANG KAMATAYANG
INSPIRATION FACTOR
5. SEXUAL URGE
6. POWER TRIPPING
7. NABABAGOT SA BUHAY
8. MEDIA INFLUENCE
26. CHARACTER OF
RECREATIONAL DATING
1. I LOVE YOU BUT WHATS YOUR
NAME AGAIN?
2. I ONLY HAVE EYES AND TIME---
FOR YOU
3. LETS JUST HAVE FUN WHILE THE
FEELINGS LAST.
4. BECAUSE I LOVE YOU CAN WE
HAVE SEX?
27. IDEAL ORDER OF RELATIONSHIP
CASUAL DATE WITH FRIENDS
STEADY DATE WITH ONE PERSON
COURTSHIP (BF/GF RLATIONSHIP)
ENGAGEMENT
MARRIAGE
28. BIBLICAL
MODERN RELATIONSHIP
DATING DATING
DATING FOR FINDING A
MOTIVE
TRIAL MARRIAGE
AND ERROR PARTNER
HOW CAN I BE
MINDSET SELF- CENTERED THE ONE FOR HER/
HIM?
METHOD ACT AS IF YOU ARE NO PHYSICAL INTIMACY
OUTSIDE THE CONTEXT
MARRIED AND
SEE IF U LIKE IT OF MARRIAGE
30. 1. OUR PARENTS SHOULD ALWAYS BE
INVOLVED IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS
EPHESIANS 6: 1-3
CHILDREN, OBEY YOUR PARENTS IN THE
LORD FOR THIS IS RIGHT.
2. WE MUST OBEY AND HONOR OUR
PARENTS
3. WE SHOULD NOT OBEY THEIR TRUST
4. WE MUST ALWAYS LISTEN TO THEIR
ADVICE AND WORDS OF WISDOM
5. WE SHOULD BE AN EXTENSION OF OUR
PARENTS NOBLE CHARACTER
32. MASARAP ANG
FEELING KUNG
APRUBADO NG
MAGULANG NATIN ANG
ATING RELASYON AT
KARELASYON
33. 1. MAGKAKAROON KA NG PEACE
OF MIND
2. HINDI NA KAYO MAGLALARO NG
TAGU-TAGUAN
3. DADAMI NAG MAGMAMAHAL
SAYO
4. BAWAS GASTOS
5. MASAYA ANG WEDDING DAY
NYO
35. 1. UNDERSTAND THE REASON WHY
YOUR PARENTS ARE OPPOSED TO
THE RELATIONSHIP
2. CHECK YOUR RELATIONSHIP
3. HUWAG NANG MAKIPAG-AWAY SA
MAGULANG HANGGAT MERON
SILANG LEGAL NA KARAPATAN
SAYO
4. PUT GOD IN THE CENTER OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP
36. ANG ENDING NG MGA
PASAWAY?
KADALASANG
NAPAPARIWARA ANG BUHAY
NAGIGING KAHIHIYAN NG
MAGULANG
HINDI NAGMAMAHAL SA
DIYOS
38. BEWARE OF THE SEXUAL TRAP
ILLUSTRATION:
ESKIMO HUNTER
HINDI LAHAT NG MASARAP AY MABUTI
ANG KAHAHANTUNGAN, HINDI MO ALAM,
PINAPATAY KA NA NG INAAKALA MONG
MAGPAPALIGAYA AT BUBUHAY SA IYONG
KATAWAN
MATTHEW 5:28
ANYONE WHO LOOKS AT A WOMAN
LUSTFULLY HAS ALREADY COMMITTED
ADULTERY WITH HER IN HIS HEART
39. PART 6
GENESIS 29
HE WAITED FOR
FOURTEEN YEARS FOR A
YES