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Your inward relationship that expresses....pdf

Nancy Lin
Nancy Lin

The document discusses finding answers by assuming they already exist and looking for them. It also discusses being "a lamp unto yourself" by relying on inner truth and wisdom rather than external sources. Finally, it provides tips for developing a positive inner relationship with oneself such as laughing at oneself and accepting one's natural traits.

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Your inward relationship that expresses... Premise The Answer Exists Now In much the same way, when we set out to find a new idea, or the answer to a problem, we must assume that the answer exists already somewhere, and set out to find it. The lamp unto yourself Lamp unto yourself Said a great Teacher to his disciples, "Those who shall be a lamp unto them-selves, relying upon themselves only, and not relying upon any external help, but holding fast to the Truth as their lamp, and, seeking their salvation in the Truth alone, shall not look for assistance to any besides themselves, it is they among my disciples who shall reach the very topmost height! But they must be willing to learn." -James Allen, The Heavenly Life 6 Ways 1. Have a good laugh with yourself. 2. Learn to enjoy time with yourself in the same way you would with a friend. 3. Invest time talking about and encouraging your natural personality traits. 4. Accept and then understand the unconscious programming. 5. Praise yourself first rather than looking for others to do it first. 6. Recognize that you are complete and that you belong. 1. Your built-in success mechanism must have a goal or "target." This goal, or target, must be conceived of as "already in existencenow" either in actual or potential form. 2. The automatic mechanism is teleological, that is, operates, or must be oriented to "end results," goals. Do not be discouraged because the "means whereby" may not be apparent. It is the function of the automatic mechanism to supply the "means whereby" when you supply the goal. Think in terms of the end result, and the means whereby will often take care of themselves. 3. Do not be afraid of making mistakes, or of temporary failures. All servo-mechanisms achieve a goal by negative feedback, or by going forward, making mistakes, and immediately correcting course. 4. Skill learning of any kind is accomplished by trial and error, mentally correcting aim after an error, until a "successful" motion, movement or performance has been achieved. After that, further learning, and continued success, is accomplished by forgetting the past 'errors, and remembering the successful response, so that it can be " imitated." 5. You must learn to trust your creative mechanism to do its work and not "jam it" by becoming too concerned or too anxious as to whether it will work or not, or by attempting to force it by too much conscious effort. You must "let it" work, rather than "make it" work.

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Your inward relationship that expresses....pdf

  • 1. Your inward relationship that expresses... Premise The Answer Exists Now In much the same way, when we set out to find a new idea, or the answer to a problem, we must assume that the answer exists already somewhere, and set out to find it. The lamp unto yourself Lamp unto yourself Said a great Teacher to his disciples, "Those who shall be a lamp unto them-selves, relying upon themselves only, and not relying upon any external help, but holding fast to the Truth as their lamp, and, seeking their salvation in the Truth alone, shall not look for assistance to any besides themselves, it is they among my disciples who shall reach the very topmost height! But they must be willing to learn." -James Allen, The Heavenly Life 6 Ways 1. Have a good laugh with yourself. 2. Learn to enjoy time with yourself in the same way you would with a friend. 3. Invest time talking about and encouraging your natural personality traits. 4. Accept and then understand the unconscious programming. 5. Praise yourself first rather than looking for others to do it first. 6. Recognize that you are complete and that you belong. 1. Your built-in success mechanism must have a goal or "target." This goal, or target, must be conceived of as "already in existencenow" either in actual or potential form. 2. The automatic mechanism is teleological, that is, operates, or must be oriented to "end results," goals. Do not be discouraged because the "means whereby" may not be apparent. It is the function of the automatic mechanism to supply the "means whereby" when you supply the goal. Think in terms of the end result, and the means whereby will often take care of themselves. 3. Do not be afraid of making mistakes, or of temporary failures. All servo-mechanisms achieve a goal by negative feedback, or by going forward, making mistakes, and immediately correcting course. 4. Skill learning of any kind is accomplished by trial and error, mentally correcting aim after an error, until a "successful" motion, movement or performance has been achieved. After that, further learning, and continued success, is accomplished by forgetting the past 'errors, and remembering the successful response, so that it can be " imitated." 5. You must learn to trust your creative mechanism to do its work and not "jam it" by becoming too concerned or too anxious as to whether it will work or not, or by attempting to force it by too much conscious effort. You must "let it" work, rather than "make it" work.