I am an active, basically happy person. I am independent and self reliant. I don't mind being alone but don't want to be lonely. I appreciate the companionship of a good man and the completeness that we can bring to each others lives. I enjoy intimacy and miss it terribly.I am not into the singles social scene. A long term relationship is my ultimate goal. However, I am not going to rush into anything. FRIENDSHIP FIRST IS A MUST! Looks are only the beginning. I am more interested in what's on the inside. I do not expect perfection, just someone with a good kind heart, integrity, intelligence n honesty, etc.. For me, physical attraction begins with a mental connection. I am a very verbal pers