Many people have witnessed the many aspects of my character and personality. Many colleagues and friends over the short span of my life have attempted to define Dana. Who is she? Why does she say and think the way she does? Why are things done a particular way around certain groups of people? How can she be so exciting, but so closed off and far away even though she is within our grasp? I am just as baffled at myself as the next person, and with much soul searching and long nights of thoughts and reflections, much realizations have surfaced that I was not ready to accept or able to embrace, while some things are still rather difficult for me to swallow all is true and all is real, so I will