The success in the controlling of the mutual understanding needs professional skills in terms of life’s knowledge, disciplines, and behaviors.
Friendship relation is not an executive function of a task to monitor the behaviors of each other’s, I say don’t judge the book by its cover.
It’s like fruitful tree the more you look after it, the more you get what you wish from it.
Since I own this property and possibility, I have the honor to ask to join your life organization as a friend.