I am.. what I am an not what you may want me to be.. You do your own things and I do mine. If I don't live up to your expectations, I can only empathise with you... can't offer you any sympathy !! You can always expect me to do the unexpected. When you're lost and low, you know you can count on me.. as the words go... " lean on me... when you're not strong.. I'll be your friend... I'll help you carry on..."