To me life is a discovery and an experiment both you let some things happen and you make some things happen.
Being happy and at peace and being able to enjoy being alive, are the only ultimate aims...everything else is what i do to achieve the above.
I belive in being open & straightforward and i dislike manipulative people.
I can be friendly enough if i'm in the mood but to me it's more important to be natural and stay who you are...
If I have a handful of genuine friends who stay friends right into my old age, i would consider myself lucky...