My philosophy on life is this, to love and give of yourself, is the only way to to be fulfilled - when we desire/want, we are never satisfied. However to do this we must be love ourselves first ...self- fulfillment, not selfishness.
Be true to yourself, live for the moment and love like there is no tomorrow.
I choose to live in the moment and try not to judge myself or others. Whatever works for you, I applaud.
I had a stroke in 2006 that changed my perspective. Life is temporary, fleeting, and I choose to try not to take it too seriously for better or worse.