There are four things that cannot be taken back:
1) The stone...after it is thrown
2) The word...after it is said
3)The love...after it is broken
4)The time...after it is lost
So, think before you act.
I am a very plain guy. I do not engage in a conversation unless it is meaningful. Gossip is only for killing time. I will carry out my responsibility to its fullest and never whine in front of my superiors. As long as the things I need fulfill my daily necessities, I do not find any reasons or obligations to purchase additional stuffs.