I have been separated 18mths now and have moved to Red Beach from out West. I am living life to the fullest and enjoying every minute. And yes my maiden name is Kilmartin. My nickname is BOB and no it doesnt stand for Battery Operated Boyfriend. The X gave it to me from Blackadder cause i play sport like a man. So he likened me to the characters the blackadder fell in love with (yes woman pretending to be men).And im dam sure im not a man - well not last time i looked