The document provides guidance to Muslims on how they should treat each other and not deceive one another. It warns that bad behavior could cause some people to leave the faith or discourage them from joining the community of believers. It emphasizes treating others well so as not to face severe punishment under Islamic law.
4. 惠惆惘 悋惘 惘惆 惺
10% of life is made up
of what happens to you.
90% of life is decided by
how you react
5. We cannot stop the car from breaking down.
The plane will be late arriving, which throws our
whole schedule off.
A driver may cut us off in the traffic.
6. We have NO control over this 10%.
The other 90% is different.
You determine the other 90%.
How?... By your reaction.
7. You are having breakfast with your family.
Your sister knocks over a cup of coffee
Onto your college shirt.
You have no control over what has just
happened.
What happens next
will be determined by how you react.
8. You curse.
You harshly scold your sister for knocking the cup over.
She breaks down in tears.
After scolding her, you turn to your mother
and you criticize her for placing the cup
too close to the edge of the table.
A short verbal battle follows.
You storm upstairs and change your shirt.
Back downstairs, you find your sister has been too busy crying
to finish her breakfast and getting ready to go to school.
She misses the bus.
9. The plane is late. It is going to mangle your schedule
for the day.
Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant?
She has no control over what is going on.
Use your time to study, get to know the other
passenger, why stress out?
It will just make things worse.
14. THE ICEBERG
KNOWLEDGE
KNOWN &
TO OTHERS
SKILLS SEA LEVEL
UNKNOWN
TO OTHERS
ATTITUDE
15. THE ICEBERG
KNOWN
TO OTHERS BEHAVIOR
SEA LEVEL
UNKNOWN
TO OTHERS
VALUES STANDARDS JUDGMENTS
ATTITUDE
MOTIVES ETHICS - BELIEFS
16. WHAT MAKES YOUR LIFE 100% ?
Let each letter of the alphabetic has a value equals to it sequence of the
alphabetical order:
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26
S K I L L S
19 11 9 12 12 19 = 82
K N O W L E D G E
11 14 15 23 12 5 4 7 5 = 96
H A R D W O R K
8 1 12 4 23 15 18 11 = 98
A T T I T U D E
1 20 20 9 20 21 4 5 = 100
17. THE CAN DO ATTITUDE
You CAN DO everything, but not all at once.
You CAN DO everything, if its important
enough for you to do.
You CAN DO everything, but you may not be
the best at everything.
You CAN DO everything, but there will be
limitations.
You CAN DO everything, but youll need help.
34. What is Delegation?
1.Delegation is the process by which
a leader assigns to his followers the
right to act and to make decisions in
certain areas.
2.Delegation is narrower than
empowerment because it relates to
a specific task.
35. A Chinese Proverb
If you want one year of prosperity,
grow grain
If you want ten years of prosperity,
grow Trees
If you want one hundred years of
prosperity, grow people
36. Delegation Checklist
1.Select the appropriate follower.
2.Select a delegate with whom you have a
reciprocal trusting relationship.
3.Delegate both the pleasant and the unpleasant,
the easy and the challenging.
4.Delegate ahead.
5.Delegate in whole chunks.
6.Delegate precisely, but step back from the
details.
7.Delegate; dont abdicate; retain some
important tasks for your self.
8.Give credit .