Most people post here how they'd like to be, not who they are. I mean, how could they know who they really are, since they don't have an exterior view of themselves?
I don't know who I am. I know who I want to be. I'd like to be successful with others and not alone, to help others and not just myself, to love truly and not only be loved.
Perhaps most importantly, I'd like to always have friends that are there to give me a good smack behind the head when I'm not like I want to be.
We are all unbalanced systems that cannot find balance by themselves.