When life doesn't always go your way thats because there might be something you need to learn from the situations that you are going through. Dont ask to be taking out of the fire figure out what you are suppose to be learning. Learn how to dance in the rain!!
Knowing what you want out of life is part of it and having someone special to spend it with is even better!! Love comes and goes but don't let pass hurts keep you from enjoying the love that God has in your life now!