Never explain yourself to any person. Because the person who likes you doesnt need it. And the person who dislikes you wont believe it.
When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.
OUR Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:
My Lord gave me nine bits of advice...
1.) To be sincere whether in private or in public.
2.) To do justice whether in anger or in happiness.
3.) To be moderate whether in riches or in poverty.
4.) To join in relations with those who try to cut me off.
5.) To give to those who deprive me.
6.) To forgive those who do wrong to me.
7.) That my silence be thoughtful.
8.) That my speech be mindful of Allah (SWT).
9.) That my vision be to take admoni