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S i b l i n g r i f a l r y a d a l a h r a s a
p e r s a i n g a n a n t a r a s a u d a r a
k a n d u n g a k i b a t k e l a h i r a n a n a k
b e r i k u t n y a . S i b l i n g
d i t u n j u k k a n d e n g a n p e n o l a k a n
t e r h a d a p k e l a h i r a n a d i k n y a ,
m e n a n g i s , m e n a r i k d i r i d a r i
l i n g k u n g a n n y a , m e n j a u h d a r i
i b u n y a a t a u m e l a k u k a n
k e k e r a s a n t e r h a d a p a d i k n y a .
U s i a d a n t i n g k a t p e r k e m b a n g a n
a n a k m e m p e n g a r u h i r e s p o n
SIBLINGS : SAUDARA KANDUNG
RIVALRY : PERSAINGAN

S a l a h s a t u p e r i s t i w a
k u n c i d a l a m k e h i d u p a n
a n a k a d a l a h k e l a h i r a n
a d i k b a r u
D a mp a k t e r s e b u t a k a n
t e r a s a d a l a m b e r b a g a i
b e n t u k , mi s a l n y a ;
P e r h a t i a n
K e s a b a r a n
R u t i n i t a s
K e g a d u h a n

g e m b i r a . M a k a y a n g
h a r u s d i l a k u k a n i b u
a d a l a h :
• P e m b e r i t a h u a n y a n g
l e b i h a w a l
• P e n e n t u a n w a k t u i t u
p e n t i n g
• P i l i h l a h t i n g k a t
y a n g s e s u a i
• A n t i s i p a s i l a h
r e a k s i n y a
• P e r k e n a l k a n s i k a k a k
d e n g a n b a y i b a y i
l a i n n y a .
• B i a r k a n d i a
m e r a s a k a n g e r a k a n
d i p e r u t i b u .

PERJUMPAAN PERTAMA
L i m a p a n d u a n p e n t i n g
u n t u k m e m a s t i k a n
h u b u n g a n k a k a k d a n a d i k
m e n g a l a m i p e r m u l a a n
y a n g b a i k .
1. H a r a p a n y a n g r e a l i t i s
2. P e r h a t i a n
3. P e r t u k a r a n h a d i a h
4. K o n t a k f i s i k
5. J a w a b l a h p e r t a n y a a n

1. K u r a n g 2 t a h u n
 Ada kecendrungan anak-anak akan bersahabat dengan baik
khususnya b i l a s i a d i k s u d a h
m e m a s u k i u s i a s e k o l a h
 K a r e n a s i s u l u n g m a s i h s a n g a t
m u d a k e t i k a a d i k n y a
d i l a h i r k a n , k e c i l
k e m u n g k i n a n n y a d i a m e r a s a
t e r a n c a m o l e h m a s u k n y a
a n g g o t a k e l u a r g a b a r u i t u .
 I b u m u n g k i n b e l u m p u l i h b e t u l
m e n g e n a i m a s a l a h k e s e h a t a n
a k i b a t p e r s a l i n a n p e r t a m a ,
m e m b u a t f i s i k i b u r e n t a n
 J i k a b e r h e n t i b e k e r j a u n t u k
J a r a k u s i a
i t u p e n t i n g

2. 2 s a m p a i 4 t a h u n
 K a r e n a t i n g k a t p e m a h a m a n n y a
s u d a h m e n i n g k a t , s i k a k a k a k a n
c e n d e r u n g t e r g a n g g u d e n g a n
k e h a d i r a n s i a d i k b a y i ,
a k i b a t n y a p e r s a i n g a n a n t a r
s a u d a r a m e n j a d i l e b i h b e s a r
 B i l a i b u m e m b e r i m a k a n s i b a y i
s i k a k a k m u n g k i n m e r a s a
c e m b u r u k a r e n a m e l i h a t i b u
d a n a d i k n y a b e g i t u d e k a t
s e c a r a f i s i k .
 J a d w a l h a r i a n s i k a k a k b e r b e d a
d a r i r u t i n i t a s a d i k n y a . D i a
t i d u r l e b i h m a l a m d a n
m e m i l i k i b a n y a k t e m a n . H a l i n i
m e m b u a t n y a m e r a s a s e b a g a i
s a u d a r a t u a y a n g l e b i h

3. L e b i h 4 t a h u n
 K i t a m e m p u n y a i b a n y a k w a k t u
u n t u k d i c u r a h k a n p a d a s i
b a y i k e r e n a s i k a k a k b e r a d a
d i s e k o l a h s e p a n j a n g h a r i .
 S i k a k a k b i s a m e l a n j u t k a n
k e g i a t a n s e u s a i s e k o l a h ,
m e s k i p u n a d i k y a b a n y a k
m e n y i t a w a k t u d a n p e r h a t i a n
k i t a . K i t a b i s a m e n g a t u r a g a r
s i k a k a k m e n d a p t k a n b a n t u a n
d a r i o r a n g t u a t e m a n n y a /
s a u d a r a k i t a .
 S i k a k a k m u n g k i n i n g i n
m e m a m e r k a n a n g g o t a k e l u a r g a
b a r u n y a m i s a l n y a d e n g a n
m e m b e r i t a h u t e m a n -t e m a n

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