"I am a very helping person. I help whenever possible."
Can you see the discrepancy between these two statements? If I am a helping person then I should help no matter what the circumstances are but I do not help. My helping others depend on many factors that are really not me.
When we help someone it makes us feel good about ourselves, it boosts our self-esteem. When I help someone I feel so good that I promise myself to help everyone in the world but most often I can't keep this promise.
Why?
Our helping behavior is determined more by the situation than by our personality. Whether you help someone in crisis largely depends on interpretation of the situation. Many factors contribute to i
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