it's like this:
Girls aren’t going to talk to guys first. It’s a girl thing. We don’t like starting the conversation because we like to feel like guys want to talk to us. We like to feel like the wait was worth something. We like feeling like they’ve waited for us like we’ve waited for them. But the number one reason we hate talking first is because we hate to seem needy or clingy. That’s why we’re scared. Cause to us, being needy and obsessive just pushes guys away. And no girl wants that. :)