What can I say: you get what you get, and you get a pretty good package. I try to be the best friend I can be. I believe in honesty. I'm always willing to listen, but won't give advice unless asked to. (You know what they say about opinions...) I'm happy with the way my children are turning out, because even if I don't' always BELIEVE I turned out ok, I must not be too bad, as they are pretty darn good people. What more could a mother ask for?