Like jokes and teasing people, take serious what I considered to be taken serious, try not to live in the past (after many years doing so) and leave the past where it belongs, have a balanced view of Christian principles (not conservative, not liberal either, not conformist with any current status quo, not charismatic); I believe churches should bring healing to the hurting but most times Christians shoot the wounded claiming righteousness; hate church politics, love team work. Otherwise, rather ask my friends, ex-wife and current wife (not that I intend having any more after 17 years so far of a good, healthy, balanced, fulfilling, complementing relatioship). I believe God forgives sin but