when i'm serious i'm serious, i work hard... Its in my blood. And when its time to have fun...... I do it like its my last day on earth. I love the world i live in and im patiently waiting for the oppourtunity to conquer it!( only i know what i mean) i love cooking for my man, i always add a good ammount of pepper to give it a kick. U gotta watch a man sweat when he eats a meal u make. Its important! I'm not yet 50 so there's so much more of me i have to discover....