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Mothers with attitude: support, advice
and entertainment on a UK online
parenting community



          Dr Sarah Pedersen and Dr Janet Smithson
Parents online

•   Searching for advice and support
•   Isolated from traditional sources
•   New generation comfortable with using the Internet
•   Increase in pre-natal screening technology
Growing body of research

•   Can empower new mothers
•   Validation for the normality of their experiences
•   Can cross the digital divide
•   But offering stereotypes of unequal gender roles
Mumsnet

•   Established 2000
•   ‘To make parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge and
    experience’
•    ‘A virtual shoulder to lean on’ (The Observer)
•   ‘The daddy’ of all parenting sites (The Times)
•   Perceived to be influential with middle-class UK mothers
Methodology

•   Discourse analysis of postings on the discussion boards
•   Online survey of Mumsnetters
•   2009 Census of Mumsnetters
Why access online communities?

•   A successful online community must be able to offer different
    satisfactions to different users
•   Wang, Yu and Fesenmaier (2002)
     – Functional, social, psychological and hedonic needs
•   Ridings and Gefen (2004)
     – Information exchange
•   Fleischmann (2004)
     – Anonymous but empathetic listeners
Previous research on parenting
communities
•   Support and advice
•   Have own experiences validated
•   Supplement professional information
The satisfactions of Mumsnet

Possible satisfaction   Number of             Percentage of all
                        respondents (n = 391) respondents
Entertainment           354                   91
Advice                  336                   86
Support                 249                   64
Company                 211                   54
Validation of your      181                   46
opinions
Other                   49                    13
Popular topics

Topic                Number of             Percentage
                     respondents (n = 391)
Chat                 199                   51
Am I Being           154                  39
Unreasonable?
Behaviour and        50                   13
development
Relationships        49                   12.5
Education            49                   12.5
Style and beauty     47                   12
Breast and bottle-   45                   11.5
feeding
Parenting            45                   11.5
Older, more experienced mothers

•   Three-quarters of respondents aged between 31 and 50
•   Mostly with more than one child
•   Limited number of small babies
•   Most parenting websites aimed at pregnancy and babies

•   Only 21% SAHM
•   High number of working mothers – higher level of income and
    educational achievement
Entertainment on Mumsnet


• Witty and educated          ‘A bit like the student
• Enjoyment of entertaining   common room at the LSE
  trolls                      with a creche and an
• Weekly round-up             allotment attached
                              perhaps?
• Haiku / pastiche
                              I love the opinionated,
                              forceful, bloody
                              brilliantness of MN’
Feminism on Mumsnet

•   Mumsnet campaigns
•   Outdoor Advertising Campaign: ‘Career Women Make Bad
    Mothers’ (Campbell Lace Beta)

    We have been asked the question: has the "Mumsnet incident"
    done lasting damage to Beta? It's hard to say. We were kicked
    off a pitchlist last week as a result of Mumsnet's protests. And it
    is scary to have a group of people e-mailing your clients
    demanding they fire you.
‘Nest of vipers’

•   Textspeak is more frowned upon than swear-words
•   Witty posts are applauded even if they take the thread off-topic

     A lot of the regular posters are very confident in what they
    write. I feel that if I post something that they don’t agree with,
    then I may be publicly ridiculed.
Flaming

•   Preece (2001): communities in which social support is
    important: very low tolerance for aggressive, critical or harsh
    comments
•   Debating communities: higher toleration for argumentation and
    home truths

    You're right, it's not fluffy here. There are lots of women here
    who are very strong minded and some of them are very, very
    clever and a bit scary in some ways. I could say that you should
    scurry away to Netmums if you find MN all a bit much. BUT what
    you get here is the benefit of all those strong minded and very,
    very clever women when you have a real problem
Is Mumsnet different?

•   Mumsnetters like to perceive themselves as being different
•   Tough love
•   Swear and flame
•   Wider demographic in some ways
•   More limited in others

•   The ‘daddy’ of all parenting sites

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  • 1. Mothers with attitude: support, advice and entertainment on a UK online parenting community Dr Sarah Pedersen and Dr Janet Smithson
  • 2. Parents online • Searching for advice and support • Isolated from traditional sources • New generation comfortable with using the Internet • Increase in pre-natal screening technology
  • 3. Growing body of research • Can empower new mothers • Validation for the normality of their experiences • Can cross the digital divide • But offering stereotypes of unequal gender roles
  • 4. Mumsnet • Established 2000 • ‘To make parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge and experience’ • ‘A virtual shoulder to lean on’ (The Observer) • ‘The daddy’ of all parenting sites (The Times) • Perceived to be influential with middle-class UK mothers
  • 5. Methodology • Discourse analysis of postings on the discussion boards • Online survey of Mumsnetters • 2009 Census of Mumsnetters
  • 6. Why access online communities? • A successful online community must be able to offer different satisfactions to different users • Wang, Yu and Fesenmaier (2002) – Functional, social, psychological and hedonic needs • Ridings and Gefen (2004) – Information exchange • Fleischmann (2004) – Anonymous but empathetic listeners
  • 7. Previous research on parenting communities • Support and advice • Have own experiences validated • Supplement professional information
  • 8. The satisfactions of Mumsnet Possible satisfaction Number of Percentage of all respondents (n = 391) respondents Entertainment 354 91 Advice 336 86 Support 249 64 Company 211 54 Validation of your 181 46 opinions Other 49 13
  • 9. Popular topics Topic Number of Percentage respondents (n = 391) Chat 199 51 Am I Being 154 39 Unreasonable? Behaviour and 50 13 development Relationships 49 12.5 Education 49 12.5 Style and beauty 47 12 Breast and bottle- 45 11.5 feeding Parenting 45 11.5
  • 10. Older, more experienced mothers • Three-quarters of respondents aged between 31 and 50 • Mostly with more than one child • Limited number of small babies • Most parenting websites aimed at pregnancy and babies • Only 21% SAHM • High number of working mothers – higher level of income and educational achievement
  • 11. Entertainment on Mumsnet • Witty and educated ‘A bit like the student • Enjoyment of entertaining common room at the LSE trolls with a creche and an • Weekly round-up allotment attached perhaps? • Haiku / pastiche I love the opinionated, forceful, bloody brilliantness of MN’
  • 12. Feminism on Mumsnet • Mumsnet campaigns • Outdoor Advertising Campaign: ‘Career Women Make Bad Mothers’ (Campbell Lace Beta) We have been asked the question: has the "Mumsnet incident" done lasting damage to Beta? It's hard to say. We were kicked off a pitchlist last week as a result of Mumsnet's protests. And it is scary to have a group of people e-mailing your clients demanding they fire you.
  • 13. ‘Nest of vipers’ • Textspeak is more frowned upon than swear-words • Witty posts are applauded even if they take the thread off-topic A lot of the regular posters are very confident in what they write. I feel that if I post something that they don’t agree with, then I may be publicly ridiculed.
  • 14. Flaming • Preece (2001): communities in which social support is important: very low tolerance for aggressive, critical or harsh comments • Debating communities: higher toleration for argumentation and home truths You're right, it's not fluffy here. There are lots of women here who are very strong minded and some of them are very, very clever and a bit scary in some ways. I could say that you should scurry away to Netmums if you find MN all a bit much. BUT what you get here is the benefit of all those strong minded and very, very clever women when you have a real problem
  • 15. Is Mumsnet different? • Mumsnetters like to perceive themselves as being different • Tough love • Swear and flame • Wider demographic in some ways • More limited in others • The ‘daddy’ of all parenting sites