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Beliefs About Yourself (Self Image)

By Far the Most Common Sabotage
• Sabotaging belief is in one’s self
• If you don’t believe in yourself, obviously no
one else will
• People can sense from a mile away when you
are not confident in yourself.

Dr. Maxwell Maltz
• Was a plastic surgeon who observed his patients
• There were people who changed their faces,
noses, etc to enhance them
• Even after their surgeries, they felt as if he didn’t
do anything
• Because the change wasn’t within themselves

What He Realized
• Your self image is the idea of who you think
you are
• He concluded that your self image is the #1
determiner of people’s success/failure

This Happens All the Time
• People win the lottery –they feel uncomfortable
playing the part of a rich person
– Lottery winners, people who made a ton of money,
are 5 times more likely to file bankruptcy
• People who become successful in business, don’t
feel comfortable with their new surroundings
– They sabotage the business

People Who Become Rich Quick
• Blow it all away – Mike Tyson Blew away $300
million

You Don’t Last In Places Where You Don’t Belong
• If you feel like or think you don’t belong, you
will avoid that place as much as possible
– The thing will generate too much cortisol

Everything You Do Now
• Is your outward expression of your inner self
image
• If you feel that you are worthy, you will dress
for success – for example
– If you feel like your worthy, you will meet others
who have achieved what you would like to achieve

Quotes and Motivational Videos
• Don’t work because these are out of you
• Not within you
• They only give a rush of dopamine
– But your self-reality will kick in

Negative Self Talk Revisited
• What you say about yourself will cause your
brain to scan the environment
• If you say you are not good or you are stupid,
or whatever
– Your brain uses that information to avoid
situations that will help you get to your goals
– And look for ways that you are stupid

It All Comes Down to Your Self Image
• So if you’re telling your brain, I’m stupid and
its looking for ways to prove that…
– What will be the result?
• If you’re telling yourself “I’m broke”, your
brain will look for the bills to prove that
• If you’re telling yourself “I’m too fat”, your
brain looks for ways your fat

When You Tell Yourself Too Much
• People develop eating disorders because they
tell themselves they are too “fat”
• No matter how much the outside world tells
them they are skinny, their mind says they are
fat

The Things to Say
• Firstly, Remember Allah
– But it’s not just a cliché
• When you remember you have the All
powerful by your side, your brain will more
likely go out of its comfort zone
– Again, the all powerful is by YOUR SIDE

The Things to Say
• Remember you’re enough
– No human being is drastically superior than
another human being
– With the exception of very little physical traits,
you are enough
– But even physical traits don’t matter

There Are People With No Arms and Legs
• The guy in the middle is Nick Vujicic, he has no arms or legs.
• He's a multi-millionaire business owner, married, and has two
kids- MA.
• Next time you have excuses about why you can't do things,
remember Nick has no arms or legs and has no excuses.

He Could Have Said to Himself
• I have no arms, I can’t do things
– Btw, no one have cared anyway
• Or he could have said I still have a mouth and
the ability to speak and motivate
• We will get more into this into the ANTs lesson

At Startup Muslim, Happens All The Time
• Beginning entrepreneurs focus on what they
are not good at or what they don’t have
– It’s a mindset garbage dump
– Their Minds are focus on their weaknesses
– So they get weakness after weakness coming to
them

1. Focus That You Are Enough
• On the fact that you are enough
• Even world geniuses are not much smarter
than you
– If a guy with no arms or legs can accomplish things
you can too

Me and The Quran
• Every time, I say I am older and am unable to
memorize Quran
– I see a blind guy who is the imam at my masjid
and he’s memorized and is reciting
– Are my excuses valid now?

2. Focus on Strengths
• When people say “I can’t start a business because I
don’t have capital”
– Brain shuts off starting a business
• But if you told yourself “I can convince someone to give
me capital”
– Or “I can learn to make my business attractive to investors”
– Then your mind actually can take action
• You’ll be contacting people
• Or you’ll be building a business that is investment worthy

3. Be Grateful for What You Have
• Any time you use the words “can’t” or “don’t
have” catch yourself and remember the
complete opposite
– Be Grateful for the people around you
– Be Grateful for the resources you have
– Be Grateful for your health and abilities

But what if I can’t Find Anything to Be Grateful
for?

But

To Do
• What Are Ways in Which You Believe You Are
Not Enough?
– What are the opposites (things to be grateful) of
you being enough?
• List them all down

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