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3 Good Tips About Mature Dating
Younger people often think that retiring from a career means
retiring from everything else; that you can't have fun, that you
can't have a active social life, that you aren't interested in
companionship anymore.
Hogwash!
One of the top growing trends of today is mature dating.
It wasn't all that long ago that people in their upper sixties were
being shunted off to the dreaded old folk's home all to often.
But with new advances in medicine, today's seniors are
healthier and more vibrant than ever; delaying a potential stay
in a nursing home by as much as several decades.
In fact, even the concept of where older people go has changed
substantially.
Instead of being in a cold and lonesome hospital like setting,
thriving and active retirement communities that focus on social
activities and fun for the elderly are popping up everywhere.
People are not only living longer, but they are happier as they do
so.
Perhaps youre a senior who has been away from the social
scene for a lot of years, and you're concerned that you have
been left behind.
There's no need for you to worry.
At the same time, it's perfectly natural to be a little hesitant
when it comes to starting to date again.
Even if you're feeling somewhat "rusty", you shouldn't let that
stop you from jumping right back into the dating circle.
Here are 3 good tips about mature dating to make things easier for you.
1. Less Pressure
While it may not seem this way at first, there is a lot less
external pressure.
If you're retired, then your career and work schedule aren't
going to get into the way like they would have before.
Chances are good that your children are out of the house, so you
don't have to find a babysitter every time you want to go out.
And, best of all, you know much more now than you did back
when you were younger.
Youre better primed to handle the different dating situations.
Including, but not limited to, avoiding some of the drama
typically faced by teenagers when they first start dating.
While dating can put pressure on anybody, at least you are free
of many of the other pressures that compound those feelings.
2. Age Doesn't Matter
As it's been said many times in the past "age ain't nothing but
a number".
While that may not be grammatically correct, the idea behind it
is true.
Another phrase that's just as true is, "you're only as old as you
feel".
Keep both of these ideas in mind.
Those thoughts can be quite freeing and allow you to go into
mature dating with excitement and a more youthful zeal.
Be happy!
Have a great time.
You worked hard all your life, and now it's time to reap the
rewards!
Dating seniors doesn't mean you have to go to the old folk's
home to play bingo or checkers (unless you really enjoy it).
Instead, you can try to do more active things together.
Live it up.
Age shouldnt be the main factor in deciding what you should or
shouldn't do when it comes to activities for dates.
3. Embrace Technology
To be fair, more seniors are using technology than in the past.
Computers, cell phones, the internet and more can all be used to
find new relationships.
If you aren't using these things already, take a course or have
somebody teach you.
It's easy to learn, and very handy when it comes to dating.
Besides, there's a good chance the people you would be
interested in dating are already using these technologies.
Mature Dating for Women Mature Dating for Men
Have a nice day, Jim & Gloria

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3 good tips about mature dating

  • 1. 3 Good Tips About Mature Dating
  • 2. Younger people often think that retiring from a career means retiring from everything else; that you can't have fun, that you can't have a active social life, that you aren't interested in companionship anymore. Hogwash! One of the top growing trends of today is mature dating. It wasn't all that long ago that people in their upper sixties were being shunted off to the dreaded old folk's home all to often. But with new advances in medicine, today's seniors are healthier and more vibrant than ever; delaying a potential stay in a nursing home by as much as several decades. In fact, even the concept of where older people go has changed substantially.
  • 3. Instead of being in a cold and lonesome hospital like setting, thriving and active retirement communities that focus on social activities and fun for the elderly are popping up everywhere. People are not only living longer, but they are happier as they do so. Perhaps youre a senior who has been away from the social scene for a lot of years, and you're concerned that you have been left behind. There's no need for you to worry. At the same time, it's perfectly natural to be a little hesitant when it comes to starting to date again. Even if you're feeling somewhat "rusty", you shouldn't let that stop you from jumping right back into the dating circle.
  • 4. Here are 3 good tips about mature dating to make things easier for you. 1. Less Pressure While it may not seem this way at first, there is a lot less external pressure. If you're retired, then your career and work schedule aren't going to get into the way like they would have before. Chances are good that your children are out of the house, so you don't have to find a babysitter every time you want to go out. And, best of all, you know much more now than you did back when you were younger. Youre better primed to handle the different dating situations. Including, but not limited to, avoiding some of the drama typically faced by teenagers when they first start dating.
  • 5. While dating can put pressure on anybody, at least you are free of many of the other pressures that compound those feelings. 2. Age Doesn't Matter As it's been said many times in the past "age ain't nothing but a number". While that may not be grammatically correct, the idea behind it is true. Another phrase that's just as true is, "you're only as old as you feel". Keep both of these ideas in mind. Those thoughts can be quite freeing and allow you to go into mature dating with excitement and a more youthful zeal.
  • 6. Be happy! Have a great time. You worked hard all your life, and now it's time to reap the rewards! Dating seniors doesn't mean you have to go to the old folk's home to play bingo or checkers (unless you really enjoy it). Instead, you can try to do more active things together. Live it up. Age shouldnt be the main factor in deciding what you should or shouldn't do when it comes to activities for dates. 3. Embrace Technology
  • 7. To be fair, more seniors are using technology than in the past. Computers, cell phones, the internet and more can all be used to find new relationships. If you aren't using these things already, take a course or have somebody teach you. It's easy to learn, and very handy when it comes to dating. Besides, there's a good chance the people you would be interested in dating are already using these technologies. Mature Dating for Women Mature Dating for Men Have a nice day, Jim & Gloria