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A Dentist’s Heart Transformation

Sal Aragona DDS MAGD is a Michigan native celebrating being married
to Vita for 29 years. He graduated from the University of Detroit Mercy
School of Dentistry in 1980 and maintains a low volume, high quality part
time general dental practice in Clinton Township, MI. He is an avid golfer,
photographer and reader of all kinds of books. He hopes to publish his first
book soon centered on his transformative experiences in India Sal S. Aragona, DDS
As you might know, the choice for excellence is a with wife, Vita
journey that has a price to pay. I am here to say that the
price has been well worth the sacrifice.
universal values such compassion, love, giving, honor,
Belonging to the Academy of General Dentistry courage and kindness.
squarely puts those dentists who choose it on a path that
I chose to focus on developing my compassion or
requires a sacrifice of time, money, pride and discomfort.
"love" capacity in my learning. My path took me on the
I have had the privilege to be mentored by the likes of
road of short term mission trips to India several years ago.
Dr. L. D. Pankey and Dr. Jim Pride during my journey
I felt that by these experiences, I could develop my capacity
of excellence in dentistry. From Dr. Pride I learned that
in caring for others unconditionally without an expectation
you cannot give what you do not have. In other words,
of reward or reciprocation. India provided an excellent
competence in your skills requires a commitment to being
venue where I could develop my "compassion" skills. What
uncomfortable to the degree of being a life long student.
I found over the past seven years in nine visits is receiving
It is only when you put yourself in an a uncomfortable
far more than growing my "compassion".
position of learning as a student that you can then give
a better service to the patients that have entrusted to you
These are some of the over 200 children in Grace
with their care. Dr. Pankey taught a philosophy that entails
Children Home (pictured below). They are children who
a certain balance between technical skills (work) and the
rest of life that includes play, love and wor-ship as
reflected in the cross of life, the symbol for the Institute.
The central message in that symbol is the quote "quid
pro quo" meaning one thing for another in reference to
giving before receiving. It takes a tremen-dous
commitment to be a life long student on the road to
competence and quite frankly another huge price to pay
to balance that with play, love and worship in achieving
a life that truly represents significance in the total
picture. We dentists find it difficult
to venture into these "uncomfortable" areas of play, love
and worship, particularly the area of love or compassion.
That was the crossroad I was facing several years ago
when considering to embark on short term missions trip
to India. This is my story of the difficult choice to
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have lost one or both parents that would be on the
streets of India begging for survival or even worse
circumstances. When my wife Vita was diagnosed
with MS early in our marriage, it precluded us having
our own children. On this last trip in 2/09, I found
myself in a surreal experience while walking these
precious children to school. I came to the thought
that this is part of what I was made for, to be a father
to the fatherless, to deeply love these that would be
considered the "least of these". Oh I had on previous
trips spoke to them about how crazy God is about
them and started scholarship funds for those
continuing in the health professions. However,
it was on this trip that part of my life was being
unfolded in being a father to these amazing children.
They in essence "adopted" me as a "father" and friend
and allowed me to truly see them now as my very
own, dear children. I am so proud of my children,
they are all very beautiful. My heart grew a bit bigger,
beating wildly for my children who would call me
their friend, their brother, their father.

Ultimate joy comes from not what you have, but
what you can give to others. Midlife often allows the
opportunity to transition from success to significance
and often, the materialistic aspects of life become
less important and universal spiritual values take
on a greater focus. There is a kind of "magic" when
pursuing timeless values like excellence in giving
nothing less than your best. If most of us are honest,
we, at one point in our journey, have or will ask the
terrifying question, "Is this all there is?". This is not
to say that all or even most of us dentists live lives
of "quiet desperation", yet many of us at one point
or another in our journey of excellence have felt this
gnawing discontent questioning the very core of
what we believe in. In this apparent crisis lies the
tremendous opportunity for personal transformation.
Obviously, there are many paths that one can
consider yet for me, the India missions trips have
been the catalyst for the heart transformation
I've experienced.

India and its people are an enigma. With
Hinduism at its core belief structure, they are a
deeply religious people. They are sincere seekers
of Truth. The problem is, as it is in all third world
environments, they are all consumed by their daily
needs. They cannot afford to think, contemplate, continued on page 16

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read, listen to the Truth. They must experience the
Truth in action. As president of CEM-USA, the
stateside non-profit organization that oversees funding
for this work (http://cemindiausa.org), I am so thrilled
to be part of a process that involves helping build a
four story hospital for these people. The future
hospital will indeed be a game change with thousands
experiencing Truth through compassionate medical
care. Their bodies are ravaged by too much fluoride in
the environment as evidenced by many cases of
skeletal fluorosis, low incidence of dental caries and
temperatures during the summer of 120 degrees F, it is
truly a testament to the incredible adaptive capacity of
the human body. Yet what amazes me even more is the Current construction of a three story, 70 bed level II missions hospital that
courageous spirit these people possess. They are the most will eventually see 2500-5000 patients a week.
joyful, kindest, honorable people I have ever encountered.
With the help of his dental technician (pictured on the front
My dental assistant, Folga came with me again on cover) on site working 24 hours around the clock, we had
this years trip and we had the usage of a local dental office provided many removable and fixed prosthodontics,
which a Hindu dentist kindly let us rent for the week. endodontics , oral surgery and operative dentistry to over
300 people in four days. Folga, who plans on beginning
dental school in 2010 ad opportunity to experience
extracting teeth and giving local anesthetics, of course,
with my direct supervision and instruction. Another way

Dr. Aragona and Dental
assistant Folga with one of
over three hundred patients
we saw in a local Indian
dental office over three days
in 2/09

of giving that results in receiving a deep joy 100x in return.
Those interested can check out a sample slide show
presentation at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNicvh3r
FdU&feature=channel_page.

This grateful dentist is happy to experience a type of
internal transformation of the heart during these missions
trips. It has given me far, far more than the little I have
given to help. The development of non-technical skills
of the heart provides a balance to which the pursuit of
excellence takes on a whole different level of meaning and
Morning walk with the 200 Grace Children to their school a mile away. purpose. It allows the universal and eternal gifts of love,
This is when they asked me to be their friend, brother, father. peace, joy, kindness, gratefulness, relationship to flourish.

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