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Emotional
Intelligence
A Leaders
Primer
Feelings are indispensable
for rational decision
making. They are like a
compass, they guide us in
the right direction.
Three Competency Domains
1. Technical Skills
2. Cognitive
Abilities
3. EI Abilities
Studies* show:
For all levels of jobs, EI
competencies are twice as
effective as IQ in determining
an individuals success rate.
The higher the level of a
position in an organization,
the more EI seems to matter.
 Executive Leaders show an
85% correlation between EI
competency and success.
EI Competencies
 Self-Awareness
 Self-Management
 Social Awareness
 Relationship
Management
EI
Self-Awareness
Knowing ones internal states, preferences,
resources and intuitions
 Emotional Self-Awareness
 Accurate Self-Assessment
 Realistic Self-Confidence
Knowing ones internal states, preferences,
resources and intuitions
 Emotional Self-Awareness 
Recognize your own inner signals,
note how decisions and values match
 Accurate Self-Assessment  Know
your real limits and strengths, be
graceful in learning, know when to ask
for help
 Realistic Self-Confidence  Be
willing and able to play to your
strengths, admit you have them!
Self-Management
Managing ones internal states, impulses and
resources
 Emotional Self-Control
 Transparency
 Optimism
 Adaptability
 Innovation
 Achievement
Emotional Self-Control  Manage your own disturbing
emotions, stay calm and clear-headed
Transparency  Live your values, admit mistakes, never turn a
blind eye
Optimism  Roll with the punches, expect the best of
everyone.
Adaptability  Flexible, nimble, fluid, comfortable with
ambiguity
Innovation  Seize opportunities, or create them
Achievement  Continually learning  and teaching ways to
do things better
Managing ones internal states, impulses and resources
Social Awareness
Awareness of others feelings, needs,
concerns and the currents, networks and
politics of the organization
 Empathy
 Organizational
Awareness
 Service
Orientation
Awareness of others feelings, needs,
concerns and the currents, networks and
politics of the organization
 Empathy  Listen, attune, grasp others
perspectives
 Organizational Awareness  Politically
and politically astute, know the values
and unspoken rules
 Service Orientation  be available to
your staff, serve to receive excellent
service
Relationship Management
 Inspirational
 Influence
 Developing Others
 Change Catalyst
 Conflict
Management
 Building Bonds
 Teamwork &
Collaboration
Awareness of ones
effect on others, ability
to work effectively and
efficiently with others
Awareness of ones effect on others, ability to
work effectively and efficiently with others
 Inspirational  Embody what you ask of others
 Influence  Be persuasive and engaging
 Developing Others  Cultivate peoples abilities
 Change Catalyst  Recognize the need for
change, challenge the status quo
 Conflict Management  acknowledge and
redirect
 Building Bonds  Cultivate the web of
relationships
 Teamwork & Collaboration  Be a model of
respect, helpfulness and cooperation
Your goals or
what do you really want
 Jot down three areas
where youd like to be
more effective (work
and / or personal life)
 Prepare to discuss
some of these goals
with the group
 Provide your insights
to participants
Self Assessment Opportunity
 Self assessment available at:
http://www.utne.com/azEQ.tmpl
 際際滷show available at:
http://www.psers.state.pa.us/ei.ppt
EQ Self-Assessment Checklist
Rate each question below on a scale of 1-5, according to how true it is of you.
1 2 3 4 5
virtually never virtually always
____ 1) I am aware of the physical reactions (twinges, aches, sudden changes)
that signal a gut reaction.
____ 2) I readily admit mistakes and apologize.
____ 3) I let go of problems, anger, or hurts from the past and I can move
beyond these.
____ 4) I generally have an accurate idea of how another person perceives me during
a particular interaction.
____ 5) I have several important things in my life that I am enthusiastic about
and I let it show.
____ 6) I can easily meet and initiate conversation with new people when I have to.
____ 7) I take a break or use another active method of increasing energy when
I sense that my energy level is getting low.
Assessment Discussion
 Is self-assessment a
valuable tool?
 How are comparisons of
group scores useful?
 Is it worth the time to
develop soft skill sets?
 What resources are out
there for us?
Discuss these questions in groups:
How can we use
Emotional Intelligence Concepts
in a Leadership Context???
 EI is our ability to acquire
and apply knowledge
from our emotions and
the emotions of others in
order to solve problems,
and live a more
successful, fulfilling life.
Issues affecting HR professionals
 Brainstorm issues
 How can we
incorporate EI
tactics to help us do
our jobs effectively?
 How can we use EI
competencies to
shield us from the
traumatic energy that
comes our way?
EI Competencies
 Self-Awareness
 Self-Management
 Social Awareness
 Relationship
Management
(from Primal Leadership Goleman, Boyatzis and McKee 2002)
EI
A chance to question our answers
 What issues do you see arising
in attempting to institute an EI
competency in your agency?
 What value do you see in
developing EI competencies for
yourself and those staff who
work with you?
 What are your questions /
concerns / comments about this
presentation?
EI !
Emotional
Intelligence
A Leaders
Primer
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a detailed emotional intelligence guide.

  • 2. Feelings are indispensable for rational decision making. They are like a compass, they guide us in the right direction.
  • 3. Three Competency Domains 1. Technical Skills 2. Cognitive Abilities 3. EI Abilities
  • 4. Studies* show: For all levels of jobs, EI competencies are twice as effective as IQ in determining an individuals success rate. The higher the level of a position in an organization, the more EI seems to matter. Executive Leaders show an 85% correlation between EI competency and success.
  • 5. EI Competencies Self-Awareness Self-Management Social Awareness Relationship Management EI
  • 6. Self-Awareness Knowing ones internal states, preferences, resources and intuitions Emotional Self-Awareness Accurate Self-Assessment Realistic Self-Confidence
  • 7. Knowing ones internal states, preferences, resources and intuitions Emotional Self-Awareness Recognize your own inner signals, note how decisions and values match Accurate Self-Assessment Know your real limits and strengths, be graceful in learning, know when to ask for help Realistic Self-Confidence Be willing and able to play to your strengths, admit you have them!
  • 8. Self-Management Managing ones internal states, impulses and resources Emotional Self-Control Transparency Optimism Adaptability Innovation Achievement
  • 9. Emotional Self-Control Manage your own disturbing emotions, stay calm and clear-headed Transparency Live your values, admit mistakes, never turn a blind eye Optimism Roll with the punches, expect the best of everyone. Adaptability Flexible, nimble, fluid, comfortable with ambiguity Innovation Seize opportunities, or create them Achievement Continually learning and teaching ways to do things better Managing ones internal states, impulses and resources
  • 10. Social Awareness Awareness of others feelings, needs, concerns and the currents, networks and politics of the organization Empathy Organizational Awareness Service Orientation
  • 11. Awareness of others feelings, needs, concerns and the currents, networks and politics of the organization Empathy Listen, attune, grasp others perspectives Organizational Awareness Politically and politically astute, know the values and unspoken rules Service Orientation be available to your staff, serve to receive excellent service
  • 12. Relationship Management Inspirational Influence Developing Others Change Catalyst Conflict Management Building Bonds Teamwork & Collaboration Awareness of ones effect on others, ability to work effectively and efficiently with others
  • 13. Awareness of ones effect on others, ability to work effectively and efficiently with others Inspirational Embody what you ask of others Influence Be persuasive and engaging Developing Others Cultivate peoples abilities Change Catalyst Recognize the need for change, challenge the status quo Conflict Management acknowledge and redirect Building Bonds Cultivate the web of relationships Teamwork & Collaboration Be a model of respect, helpfulness and cooperation
  • 14. Your goals or what do you really want Jot down three areas where youd like to be more effective (work and / or personal life) Prepare to discuss some of these goals with the group Provide your insights to participants
  • 15. Self Assessment Opportunity Self assessment available at: http://www.utne.com/azEQ.tmpl 際際滷show available at: http://www.psers.state.pa.us/ei.ppt
  • 16. EQ Self-Assessment Checklist Rate each question below on a scale of 1-5, according to how true it is of you. 1 2 3 4 5 virtually never virtually always ____ 1) I am aware of the physical reactions (twinges, aches, sudden changes) that signal a gut reaction. ____ 2) I readily admit mistakes and apologize. ____ 3) I let go of problems, anger, or hurts from the past and I can move beyond these. ____ 4) I generally have an accurate idea of how another person perceives me during a particular interaction. ____ 5) I have several important things in my life that I am enthusiastic about and I let it show. ____ 6) I can easily meet and initiate conversation with new people when I have to. ____ 7) I take a break or use another active method of increasing energy when I sense that my energy level is getting low.
  • 17. Assessment Discussion Is self-assessment a valuable tool? How are comparisons of group scores useful? Is it worth the time to develop soft skill sets? What resources are out there for us? Discuss these questions in groups:
  • 18. How can we use Emotional Intelligence Concepts in a Leadership Context??? EI is our ability to acquire and apply knowledge from our emotions and the emotions of others in order to solve problems, and live a more successful, fulfilling life.
  • 19. Issues affecting HR professionals Brainstorm issues How can we incorporate EI tactics to help us do our jobs effectively? How can we use EI competencies to shield us from the traumatic energy that comes our way?
  • 20. EI Competencies Self-Awareness Self-Management Social Awareness Relationship Management (from Primal Leadership Goleman, Boyatzis and McKee 2002) EI
  • 21. A chance to question our answers What issues do you see arising in attempting to institute an EI competency in your agency? What value do you see in developing EI competencies for yourself and those staff who work with you? What are your questions / concerns / comments about this presentation? EI !