The document provides guidance on implementing agile principles and practices within families to help them adapt to continuous change. It recommends establishing a shared family backlog, weekly planning meetings, daily stand-ups, and retrospectives. The goals are to promote communication, transparency, accountability and continuous improvement among family members so they can better support each other and achieve their goals.
2. Lean Influences of Agile
Eliminate waste
Large specification document
Amplify learning
Rotate responsibilities
Respect and Reward People
Better way of doing things
Build quality
During development rather than add later
Goals and Commitments
Deliver fast
Inventory or waste
Recognize and optimize the whole
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3. Before Start think
What has this system meant for you and your family?
Why? - What works at work, works at work not because of your work, but because it
works
What is the best outcome you can imagine?
Is starting realistic?
Why havent previous efforts worked?
How will this be different?
Goals
Create and maintain a happy, healthy family
Create independent and capable adults
More peace, less chaos
Promote a culture of learning and improving
Providing consistency increases feelings of safety
Stay in sync with each other
4. Family vNext Framework
Single Family Backlog
Family Weekly Planning meeting
Shared Family Calendar
Plan for the week and display on the wall (Information Radiator)
One shared goal everybody agrees
Every morning daily huddle quick meet up 5 minutes
End of the week retrospective improve
The secrets of Happy families Bruce Feiler Agile Family manifesto
Adapt all the time
Empower your children
Go out and play
Tell your story
Care - try
IEEE Paper Agile for Families Iterating with Children
5. Start
Schedule a family meeting
Create family Backlog
Reflect and plan
Post expectations for all to see using
Information radiator
6. The Big Picture of Framework
Framework principles
Roles in the Family
Individual
Adult
Parents
Family Meeting
Family HQ
Daily huddle
Retrospective
7. Family vNext Principles
Change is inevitable
Planning matters more than the plan
Inspect and adapt to improve
Embrace Change
Accountability increases with transparency
Everyone wants to do well
Learn to learn
8. Individual Responsibilities
Show up half battle done
Participate with sincerity
Meet individual commitments
Everyone is accountable to and for the family
Help each other
9. Parent Responsibilities
Coach and support with patience
Parents are generally better facilitators
Facilitation is key skill
Children can learn practice facilitating
Decide with consensus when possible
Throw the occasional trump card
INSPIRE you are an integral part of something bigger
than yourself
10. The Big Picture : Family HQ
The location of the plan
Ideally used for all events
One source of truth for the current plan
Updated daily
Ambiently available to all
Fully stocked with planning supplies
11. Family meeting
Should be part of Family practice
Implements the framework
Reduce major events to one per week
We inspected and adapted our way to this
Normally Sunday night 1 hr time box
includes Retro + Planning
All family members
The weeks history
Last weeks goals and commitments
Backlog
New goals
Ideas for improvement
Behavior commitments
Refined backlogs
Weekly Goal
Individual goals
A shared plan for the week
Updated Family HQ
12. The Daily Huddle
Why daily huddle?
Circumstances change quickly in real life
Focus for a moment
Reduce FUD (Fear, Uncertainty, Doubt)
Increase awareness, transparency, trust
Goal improve everyones day
Not a status report
Not issue instructions
Facilitate discussion, dont demand it
The Team creates a plan for each day
Inspect and adapt the Sprint Backlog
Assess progress toward the Sprint Goal
5-15 minute time-box
Same time and place each day
Everyone is heard
13. Daily Huddle Rules
Everyone can explain todays plan
Same time at Family HQ each morning
Time boxed to 5 minutes
(Ideally, everyone participates together)
(Accommodate reality)
Quickly consider and Share
How are we doing so far this week?
How am I doing so far this week?
What will I do today?
What will I need to succeed?
Help from someone else
Transportation
Money
14. Learning Organization
Adapt to their external environment
Continually enhance their capability to change and adapt
Develop collective as well as individual learning
Use new understanding to achieve better results
Transparency
Same picture at same situation
Definition of Done
Completeness
Quality
15. On Inspection
Inspect frequently as work is done
To avoid disaster
Detect mistakes quickly
Repair mistakes quickly
Finishing the wrong thing can be worse than doing nothing
Peer review of chores
16. Kaizen
Japanese for improvement or Change for the best
Philosophy or practices that focus upon continuous improvement of
processes
17. Family HQ
Real value is conversation with your family members
Information Radiator at Kids hospital
Hospital Ballet
18. Family HQ: Consideration
Dont use permanent place
Bigger is better
Ambient info should leak into our brain (update at a glance)
Everybody can reach it
Leave room to spread
High traffic area are better
Space must accommodate Daily Huddles
Space should accommodate the weekly meeting
Fun with space, achievement
Inexpensive supplies
19. Family HQ Which info on?
Family Backlog
Current Family Goal
Todays chores and responsibilities
Shared Calendar
Individual Goals, Commitments,
and Reminders
Different colors for chores
Chore rotation system
Personal shields
Tapes
22. Weekly Family Meeting
Goal
An intended accomplishment
by an individual or group
May have fuzzy success criteria
May change as it is realized
Represents a desire for
something to change
Commitment
A promise made by an individual or group
Must be stated aloud I commit to..
Supports a declared goal
Represents a desire for someone to
change
23. Shared Family Goals
Do not change mid-week
One always exists
Bar can be low
Keep trying
Really. Always.
Do-overs encouraged
Until the goal is met
Until there is general agreement to move
on
Apply SMART rule
24. A Simple goal Setting Exercise
1. Convene the family
2. Everyone writes goals, 1 per card, for 2-3 minutes
3. Arrange them in groups
4. Name the groups
5. Order according to number of index cards per
group
Note Dont plan too far ahead things will change
Result will be family backlog
31. Family Meeting: Preparation
Raise a meeting time approaching alert
Prepare the space
Get the backlog
Ensure materials and supplies are on hand
Snacks are always good
33. Retrospective
Family reflects upon itself
Positive and Negative things happened in last week
Inspect and Adapt The Family (LEARN, LIVE, BELIEVE)
To find actionable improvements
Understand how we can help each other
Refine or expand Done criteria
Commit to new behaviors or standards
Everyone attends
Typically about 30 mins
Weekly
Try for the ideal place and time (not required)
Accommodate reality
36. Retro: Human Tips
Ask thoughtful questions
Encourage genuine feedback
Enforce respectful behavior
Start with the end in mind
Coach new facilitators
Without trust here, all is for naught
Try warm up exercise, Add your own spices
Location, Location, Location
Anticipate frustration
Not everybody will be in the mood every time
Be prepared to hear difficult truths
Respond deliberately
Each week is a new chance
936 weeks between 1 and 18
37. Retro: Lean Thinking
Make contracts explicit
Keywords
Between 2 people
The whole family
Example
French Fries
38. Retro: Basic Recipe
Draw me a picture for younger
Place the drawings on a wall
Describe yours
Find patterns
Grade the week
39. Retro: Bad Smells
Skipping it
Singling out individuals
Blurting
Bad Timing
All or nothing (Not to be perfect)
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