Intro & the story of the AFC (Nice Guy Syndrome develops shame around his own heterosexuality and expressing his masculinity due to a culture hostile to masculinity (he felt this), this led to beta behavior, approach anxiety and no sexual confidence, seeking rapport with women, getting friend zoned, orbiting them and getting oneitis for women you havent even been physical with
Nice Guy Syndrome
Shame around expressing heterosexual desires and masculinity (due to culture and religious upbringing)
Beta behavior - certainty seeking, attachment to the outcome, supplication, chasing
Approach anxiety and no sexual confidence
Rapport seeking
Friend zone
Orbiting
Oneitis
Emotional tampon
Michaels Nice Guy Syndrome story of growing up Catholic with guilt and shame around his own heterosexuality, waiting on the girl to make the first move, never initiating physicality first
Michaels Transformation story starting with mentorship from James Bergstrom of TantraLogic in December of 2008 into HercuStotle, one of the best PUAs in the Chicago community
2. Weekend Workshop
Day 1:
Intro & the story of the AFC (Nice Guy Syndrome develops shame around his own heterosexuality and
expressing his masculinity due to a culture hostile to masculinity (he felt this), this led to beta behavior,
approach anxiety and no sexual confidence, seeking rapport with women, getting friend zoned, orbiting them
and getting oneitis for women you havent even been physical with
Nice Guy Syndrome
Shame around expressing heterosexual desires and masculinity (due to culture and religious upbringing)
Beta behavior - certainty seeking, attachment to the outcome, supplication, chasing
Approach anxiety and no sexual confidence
Rapport seeking
Friend zone
Orbiting
Oneitis
Emotional tampon
Michaels Nice Guy Syndrome story of growing up Catholic with guilt and shame around his own
heterosexuality, waiting on the girl to make the first move, never initiating physicality first
Michaels Transformation story starting with mentorship from James Bergstrom of TantraLogic in December of
2008 into HercuStotle, one of the best PUAs in the Chicago community
Specializing in Same Night Lays
Multiple Long Term Relationships
Game in Relationship (Love Game now married) - Won the game
3. Weekend Workshop Cont.
Day 2:
Ideal mate profile
What are you looking for in a woman?
Pickup (ie. Attraction & Seduction) as a process
Selection
Approach
Attract (demonstrate masculine personality and play in the uncertainty)
Isolate
Logistics
Escalate
Pull
Lay (sexual confidence)
First concepts
Alpha vs. Beta
Developing the masculine personality & the social guy
Cocky funny
Attraction & Seduction Methodology: Emotional Charge & Escalation Model
Sexual confidence
Alpha male beliefs
Spontaneity and natural game
Physical game (dancing)
4. Weekend Workshop Cont.
Day 3:
In field work
Sarge to desensitize to approach anxiety and build social confidence
Practice opening
Practice having a conversation
Practice using cocky funny humor to generate attraction
Practice getting her number
Practice isolating and escalating
Practice pulling & seduction (Same Night Lays)
Practice D2s
Debrief
What went well?
What didnt go well?
What would you change for next time?
Notes on learning and implementation