Beyond Anger provides guidance for honoring one's heart when feeling angry. It advises to look deeper at the root cause of anger, which is often hurt, and to speak from the heart about the experience of hurt without blaming others. While anger is normal, acting it out only invites more conflict and hurt. To be heard, one should speak the truth about the underlying hurt rather than venting anger.
3. What is the root
of the anger?
What underlies
the anger?
How were you hurt?
Hurt underlies anger.
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4. Speak from the heart.
Speak from the hurt,
yet do not blame.
Give voice to the
experience of the hurt,
the sadness, the wound.
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5. Anger is normal. Do not judge it, but do not act it out.
That only invites polarity, opposition, and more hurt.
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6. To be heard,
speak the truth.
The anger is
an avoidance,
a masking,
a venting,
an eruption.
The truth is hurt.
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