This document discusses homosexuality and related topics such as gender, sexual orientation, and challenges faced by the LGBTQ community in India. It provides definitions of key terms like sex, gender, and sexual orientation. It outlines the history of homosexuality in India as depicted in ancient texts and temple carvings. It also discusses common myths and problems faced by homosexuals in India, such as family acceptance, mental health issues, and workplace discrimination. The document advises counselors on how to support LGBTQ clients and addresses concerns around discussing sexuality and helping families understand sexual orientation.
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1. HOMOSEXUALI
TY
By- Jub We Talk Indias First LGBT
Podcast
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Some men like Jack/ and some like Jill;
/ Im glad I like them both;
but still/ In the strict ranks/ of Gay and Straight/
What is my status?/ Stray? or Great? .
2. Sex and Gender
Sex :
Sex is something one is born with.
An organism's sex is defined by the
gametes it produces: males produce
male gametes (spermatozoa, orsperm)
while females produce female gametes
(ova, or egg cells)
1) male
2) female
3) True hermaphrodites (have testes
and ovaries)
4) Male pseudohermaphrodites (have
testes, some aspects of female
genetalia)
5) Female pseudohermaphrodites
(have ovaries, some aspects of male
genetalia)
All societies have a set of gender
categories that can serve as the basis
of the formation of asocial identityin
relation to other members of society. In
most societies, there is a basic division
between gender attributes assigned to
males and females. In all societies,
however, some individuals do not
identify with some (or all) of the aspects
of gender that are assigned to their
biologicalsex.
Gender:
3. Human Sexuality :
Human sexuality can also refer to
the way someone is sexually
attracted to another person - which
is determined by theirsexual
orientation- whether it is to the
opposite sex (he te ro se xuality), to
the same sex (ho m o se xuality),
having both these tendencies
(bise xuality),to allgender
identities(panse xuality o r
bise xuality),or not being attracted to
anyone in a sexual manner
(ase xuality).
4. Sexual Orientation & Sexual
Behavior
Sexual orientationdescribes an
enduring pattern of attraction that is
romanticorsexual(or a combination
of these) to persons of the opposite
sex, the same sex, or to both sexes,
as well as thegendersthat
accompany them.
Sexual identityrefers to how one
thinks of oneself in terms of whom
one
isromanticallyorsexuallyattracted
to. Sexual identity and sexual
behavior are closely related tosexual
orientation
Sexual Behaviorrefers to the
manner in which humans
experience and express their
sexuality. People engage in a
variety of sexual acts from time to
time, and for a wide variety of
reasons.
5. Homosexuality
Homosexuality
isromanticattraction,sexual
attractionorsexual activity between
members of the samesexorgender. As
anorientation, homosexuality refers to
"an enduring pattern of or disposition to
experience sexual, affectionate, or
romantic attractions" primarily or
exclusively to people of the same sex; "it
also refers to an individual's sense of
personal and social identity based on
those attractions, behaviors expressing
them, and membership in acommunity
of otherswho share them."
7. History Of Homosexuality in India
TheArthasastra, an
ancient Indian
treatise on statecraft,
mentions a wide
variety of non-
vaginal sexual
practices which,
whether performed
with a man or a
woman, were sought
to be punished with
the lowest grade of
fine. While
homosexual
intercourse was not
sanctioned, it was
treated as a very
minor offence, and
several kinds of
heterosexual
intercourse were
punished more
The classic Indian textKama Sutradeals without ambiguity or
hypocrisy with all aspects of sexual lifeincluding marriage,
adultery, prostitution, group sex, sadomasochism, male and
female homosexuality, and transvestism.
And once in a while, hidden in niches as in Khajuraho, one does
find images of eitherwomen erotically embracing otherwomen
ormen displaying theirgenitals to each other, the formerbeing
more common (suggesting a tilt in favourof the male voyeur).
Interpretations and judgements aside, these images tell us that
the idea of same-sex and what the colonial rulers termed
unnatural intercourse did exist in India. One can only speculate
if the images represent the common orthe exception.
9. Myths About Homosexuality
MYTH# 1 No one is born gay.
MYTH# 2 Homosexuality can be cured/treated .
MYTH# 3 People become homosexual because there was a deficiency in sex-role
modeling by their parents.
MYTH# 4 LGBT people don't live nearly as long as heterosexuals.
MYTH# 5 Gay people are more prone to be mentally ill and to abuse drugs and
alcohol.
MYTH# 6 Same-sex parents harm children.
MYTH# 7 Gay people can choose to leave homosexuality.
MYTH# 8 Gay men molest children at far higher rates than heterosexuals.
MYTH# 9 Homosexuality is a western concept
MYTH# 10 Homosexuals are impotent males
10. Problems Faced By Homosexuals in
India
Fear of disclosure of ones
sexual orientation and HIV status
Coming out to ones family,
friends (disclosing ones sexual
identity to friends and family)
Anxiety, depression, suicidal
behaviour are also the
common concerns,
particularly when they are
HIV positive
Fear of disclosure of ones
sexual orientation and HIV status
Coming out to ones family,
friends (disclosing ones sexual
identity to friends and family)
Anxiety, depression, suicidal
behaviour are also the
common concerns,
particularly when they are
HIV positive
Confusion/conflation of
sexual orientation with
gender
Dealing with pressures of
marriage
Discrimination at
home/workplace and
Society.
Lack of social support
systems
11. How Counselors Can Help !
Try and address your own discomfort with sexual practices,
sexuality and sexual orientations
Express a positive, open body language like smiling,
nodding, concern, etc and understand verbal and non
verbal cues
Ensure privacy and confidentiality
Be sensitive while asking questions
Acknowledge clients relationship and value them
Encourage condom usage and explore other health issues
Referrals to other counselors or therapists
12. Concerns And Challenges
Helping the
family to
realize
implications
of the
individuals
sexual
orientation(m
arriage, child
bearing,
social
consequence
s)
Dealing with issues related to ones
loneliness
Sex and sexuality needs to be
discussed in open forums Introducing
curriculum on sexuality in universities
Spreading Awareness About
Homosexuality being natural among
the people