Cyberbullying involves a child tormenting, threatening, harassing, humiliating, or embarrassing another child using technology like the internet, phone, or other digital devices. It must involve children on both sides. While sometimes illegal, cyberbullying is always wrong and can have serious effects on victims like increased risk of anxiety, depression, and suicide. Signs a child is being cyberbullied include emotional distress around technology, being secretive of their online activities, withdrawing from friends and activities, and changes in mood or behavior. Parents should address cyberbullying directly with their child, explain the harm it causes, and set clear expectations that it is unacceptable.
2. WHAT IS CYBERBULLYING?
Cyberbully is when a child is tormented, threatened,
harassed, humiliated, embarrassed or targeted by
another child using the Internet, mobile phone, or other
type of digital technology.
It has to be a child on both sides. If it is an adult, it is not
considered cyberbullying and is called cyber-harassment
or cyberstalking and is a very serious
crime. Cyberbullying is very serious also, but it doesn't
always break the law. Sometimes it does break the law ,
and even when it doesn't, it is definitely wrong and
children do usually get in trouble with parents or school.
4. Effects Of Cyberbullying
ï‚— No longer limited to schoolyards or street corners,
modern-day bullying can happen at home as well as
at school.
ï‚— Severe or chronic cyberbullying can leave victims at
greater risk for anxiety, depression, and other stress-
related disorders.
ï‚— The punishment for cyber bullies can include being
suspended from school or kicked off of sports teams.
ï‚— Many of the victim of cyberbullying take a risk to end
the tease of bullies by committed suicide.
5. Many kids and teens who are cyberbullied are reluctant to
tell a teacher or parent, often because they feel ashamed of
the social stigma, or because they fear their computer
privileges will be taken away at home.
The signs that a child is being cyberbullied vary, but a few
things to look for are:
 signs of emotional distress during or after using the Internet
or the phone
 being very protective or secretive of their digital life
 withdrawal from friends and activities
 avoidance of school or group gatherings
 slipping grades and "acting out" in anger at home
 changes in mood, behavior, sleep, or appetite
6. Finding out that your kid is the one who is
behaving inappropriately can be upsetting and
heartbreaking. It's important to address the
problem head on and not wait for it to go away.
Talk to your child firmly about his or her actions
and explain the negative impact it has on others.
Joking and teasing might seem OK, but it can
hurt people's feelings and lead to getting in
trouble. Bullying — in any form — is
unacceptable; there can be serious (and
sometimes irrevocable) consequences at home,
school, and in the community if it continues.
7. Tips to Stop Cyberbullying
• Don’t respond
• Don’t retaliate
• Save the evidence
• Talk to a trusted adult
• Block the bully
• Be civil
• Don’t be a bully
• Be a friend, not a bystander