This document summarizes a book that argues male and female traits are more socially conditioned than innate.
The book asserts that differences seen between men and women are often the result of gender biases in society rather than hardwired biological differences. It notes that the human mind is shaped by environment and culture, not inherently male or female.
If gender traits are conditioned rather than innate, then the current situation of women relative to men is open to change. The book aims to debunk common beliefs, such as that boys are naturally better at math/science or that women have superior intuition. It argues these differences often reflect social expectations rather than biological realities.
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Delusions of gender, Delusions of difference
1. What this book says, and why it matters
Emma Cookson, March 2013
2. Why have I written this summary?
Because I found this book inspiring, thought-provoking and
full of good data, quotes, examples
Because I know most people won't have time to read it - but
I wish they did
And, most of all, because a lot of nonsense is talked about
the so-called innate differences between men and women -
and this book starts to de-bunk some of it....
3. The premise of the book in a nutshell
That male-ness and female-ness are more conditioned than innate
So just because you see evidence of a particular 'typical' behavior by
men or women, you don't get to claim that this difference is innate or
hard-wired
And the same goes for the typical skills/capabilities of men vs women, or
even typical male vs female brain patterns. Differences by sex may
indeed be there, but they're not necessarily automatic or immutable
Of particular note in a world where we read lots of pop-psychology
articles and books about 'male vs female brains' or 'male vs female
thinking'....it's worth being aware that psychologists are increasingly
clear that the human mind is plastic, mutable, responsive to
environment. So the notion of an inherently male or female mind - as
opposed to one shaped by its socio-cultural environment, including
the gender biases of that environment - is improbable.
4. The premise in a nutshell cont'd..
And all of this matters a lot - it isn't just academic argument - because it
implies of course that women's current social, cultural and business
situation relative to men's is completely open to change
If male-ness and female-ness are mostly conditioned phenomena, rather
than hard-baked and unchangeable, then you cant claim that what
women have achieved so far, relative to men - whether as scientists or
mathematicians, as CEOs or politicians, as artists or bread-winners -
is in any way representative of their future capacity.
5. A couple of quotes that sum it all up...
"When we con鍖dently compare the 'female mind' and the 'male mind', we think
of something stable inside the head of the person, the product of a 'female' or
'male' brain. But such a tidily isolated data processor is not the mind that social
and cultural psychologists are getting to know with ever more intimacy. As
Harvard University psychologist Mahzarin Banaji puts it, there is no 'bright line
separating self from culture', and the culture in which we develop and function
enjoys a 'deep reach' into our minds." (Fine)
"The existence of sex differences either in means or variances in ability says
nothing about the source or inevitability of such differences or their potential basis
in immutable biology" (Johnson, Carothers, & Dreary, 2008)
6. Or, in less scienti鍖c terms.
The more I was treated as a woman, the more woman I became. I adapted willy-nilly. If
I was assumed to be incompetent at reversing cars, or opening bottles, oddly
incompetent I found myself becoming. If a case was thought too heavy for me,
inexplicably I found it so myself
Jan Morris, male-to-female transsexual, in her autobiography Conundrum
7. "
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Debunk no.1
From birth, boys and girls just naturally
behave differently
8. Parental sexism
"Sociologist Barbara Rothman asked a group of mothers to describe the
movements of their fetuses in the last 3 months of pregnancy. Among the
women who didn't know the sex of their baby while they were pregnant, there
was no particular pattern to the way that....male and female babies were
described. But women who knew the sex of their unborn baby described the
movements of sons and daughters differently. All were 'active' but male
activity was more likely to be described as 'vigorous' and 'strong'.....Female
activity, by contrast, was described in much gentler terms
(Rothman, The Tentative Pregnancy, 1988)
"Psychologists often 鍖nd that parents treat baby girls and boys differently...One
study, for example, found that mothers conversed and interacted more with
girl babies and young toddlers....[and in another study] Mothers were shown
an adjustable sloping walkway, and asked to estimate the steepness of slope
their crawling eleven-month-old child could manage and would attempt. Girls
and boys differed neither in crawling ability nor risk taking.....but mothers
underestimated girls and overestimated boys - both in crawling ability and
crawling attempts...." (Mondschein, Adolph & Tamis-LeMonda 2000)
9. Gender conditioning for children
"Visit ten children's clothing stores, and each time approach a salesperson saying
that you're looking for a present for a newborn. Count how many times you're
asked "Is it a boy or a girl?" You're likely to have a 100% hit rate" (Fine)
"This tagging of gender - especially different conventions for male and female
dress, hairstyle, accessories, and use of makeup - may well help children to
learn how to divvy up the people around them by sex....At just ten months old,
babies have developed the ability to make mental notes regarding what goes
along with being male or female.." (Levy & Haaf, 1994)
"A recent survey of 19,664 children's [TV] programs in twenty-four countries
found that only 32 percent of main characters are female (....13 percent when
it comes to nonhuman creatures like animals, monsters and robots.) And, a
survey of the top-grossing G-rated movies from 1990 to 2005 found that less
than a third of the speaking roles go to females
(Gotz, 2008/Smith & Cook, 2008)
10. Debunk no 2 "
Traditional de鍖nitions of masculinity aren't
better, just different.....
11. No agenda here. Obviously.
write down what, according to cultural lore, males and females are like..One
list would probably feature communal personality traits such as
compassionate, loves children, dependent, interpersonally sensitive, nurturing.
These, you will note, are ideal quali鍖cations for someone who wishes to live to
serve the needs of others. On the other character inventory we would see
agentic descriptions like leader, aggressive, ambitious, analytical, competitive,
dominant, independent, and individualism. These are the perfect traits for
bending the world to your command...... (Fine)
".....When a child clings on to a highly desirable toy and claims that his
companion "doesn't want to play with it", I have found that it is wise to be
suspicious. The same skepticism can be usefully applied here" (Fine)
12. Debunk no 3"
Women may not be so logical, but everyone
knows they have great intuition.....
13. That 'woman's intuition' thing?
Fine cites various studies which apparently prove that - when asked to self-rate
(my italics) on questions relating to empathy and intuitive understanding of
others' thoughts/feelings - women do indeed perform better than men. But
she then goes on to question how reliable such self-rating really is. (cf the
data we've all seen in other contexts about how vast majorities of the
population rate themselves as having an above-average sense of humor,
being a great driver, being more intelligent than average etc).
It seems that self-rating as empathetic/non-empathetic is next to useless...
"When psychologists Mark Davis and Linda Kraus analyzed all the then-relevant
literature in search of an answer to the question, 'what makes for a good
empathizer?'.....They found that people's ratings of their own social sensitivity,
empathy, femininity, and thoughtfulness are virtually useless when it comes to
predicting actual interpersonal accuracy"
(Davis & Kraus, Personality and empathic accuracy, 1997)
14. It turns out that the less people realize that what they're being tested for is
empathy/intuition (ie the less they are primed actively to think of themselves as
male/female and to act accordingly) then the less likely women are to out-
perform men. In other words, we're just seeing a social/cultural effect.
"In other words, women and men may differ not so much in actual empathy but in
how empathetic they would like to appear to others (and, perhaps, to
themselves" as Eisenberg [psychologist Nancy Eisenberg] put it to Schaffer
[Slate journalist, Amanda Schaffer]"
(Fine, quoting from Slate, The Sex Difference Evangelists, July 1st 2008)
Fine then goes on to describe the work of psychologist Willam Ickes who in the
1990s developed a new, particularly stringent test of actual empathy:-
"He [Ickes]concludes from his lab's research that "although women, on average,
do not appear to have more empathetic ability than men, there is compelling
evidence that women will display great accuracy than men when their
empathetic motivation is engaged by situational cues that remind them that
they, as women, are expected to excel at empathy-related tasks."
(Ickes & Graham, Gender differences in empathic accuracy, 2000)
16. If different mathematical ability is genetic,
how come this speed of change is possible?
"In 1976, only 8 percent of Ph.D.s in biology went to women; by 2004, 44 percent
did. Today, half of M.D.s go to women. Even in engineering, physics,
chemistry, and math, the number of women receiving doctorates tripled or
quadrupled between 1976 and 2001. Why assume that we have just now
reached some natural limit?" Amanda Schaffer, Slate, July 2008
"...the Study of Mathematically Precocious Youth (SMPY)...gives the quantitative
section of the ......SAT to kids who, theoretically, are way too young to take it.
Children who score at least 700 (on a 200 to 800 scale) are de鍖ned as 'highly
gifted'. In the early 1980s, highly gifted boys identi鍖ed by the SMPY
outnumbered girls 13 to 1. by 2005, this ratio had plummeted to 2.8 to 1."
(Andreescu et al, 2008)
17. "I'm think I'm bad at math = I will be bad
at math"
Apparently 'mental rotation performance' is the test which regularly shows the
largest and most reliable gender difference in cognition. (The typical test
involves being shown a 3D shape and having to match its pair in a set of
options which have all been rotated into different positions). But Fine quotes
multiple examples of how male-female results on this test can nevertheless be
dramatically affected by modulating social context eg a study by Italian
researcher Angelica Moe......
"Moe gave the mental rotation test to Italian high school students, telling one
group that men perform better on it 'probably for genetic reasons', telling a
second group nothing about results, and telling a third group the lie that
women perform better - again 'probably for genetic reasons'. "In both the
men-are-better and the control group, men outperformed women with the
usual size of gender difference. But women in the women-are-better group,
the recipients of the little white lie, performed just as well as the men"
(A Moe, 2009)
18. CUNY psychologist Catherine Good set up a similar test relating to a very hard
GRE (Graduate Record Examination) Math test. There were two samples -
the 'stereotype threat' sample (primed to be wary of genetic difference by
being told the test was designed to understand what makes some people
better at math) - and a 'non-threat' sample who were explicitly told that
despite testing on thousands of students, no gender difference had ever been
found.
"Among these participants, men and women, as well as men in the nonthreat
condition, all scored about 19 percent on this very dif鍖cult test. But women in
the non-threat group scored an average of 30 percent, thus outperforming
every other group....In other words, the standard presentation of a test
seemed to suppress women's ability but when the same test was presented
to women as equally hard for men and women it 'unleashed their mathematics
potential
(Good, Aronson & Harder, 2008)
19. Fine goes on to explain: "Research suggests that the deadly combination of
'knowing-and-being' (women are bad at math and I am a woman) can lower
expectations, as well as trigger performance anxiety and other negative
emotions" - later adding:-
"The reason for this [underperformance when aware of potential, negative gender
effect on performance] seems to be because suppressing unwanted thoughts
and anxieties uses up mental resources that could be put to better use
elsewhere. (Fine)
20. Girls are conditioned to see themselves as
less good at math - which can become
self-ful鍖lling
"Sociologist Shelley Correll ......used the data from the 1988 National Educational
Longitudinal Study, involving tens of thousands of high school students, to
carefully compare students' actual grades with their own assessments of their
mathematical and verbal competence. She found that boys rated their math
skills higher than their equal female counterparts.....they didn't in鍖ate their
verbal competence. These self-assessments proved to be an important factor
in the students' decision making about their careers. With actual ability.....held
equal, the higher a boy or girl rates his or her mathematical competence, the
more likely it is that he or she will head down a path toward a career in
science. Correll concludes that "boys do not pursue mathematical activities at
a higher rate than girls do because they are better at mathematics. They do
so, at least partially, because they think they are better".
(Correll, 2004)
21. Then the effect of fewer female role models
kicks in, it's a vicious circle....
"As [a] mathematical woman moves up the ranks, she will also
progressively lose one very effective protection against the
stereotyping threat: a female role model to look up to. People's self-
evaluations, aspirations, and performance are all enhanced by
encountering the success of similar role models - and the more similar
the better".
(Blanton, Crocker & Miller, 2000; Marx, Stapel & Muller, 2005)
23. If you have to be a working woman, at
least don't be a working mother....
"A meta-analysis of the employment prospects of so-called paper people
(鍖ctitious job applicants evaluated in the lab) found that, overall, men are
indeed rated more favorably than identical women for masculine jobs, while
participants are biased against men applying for stereotypical feminine jobs,
like secretarial work or teaching home economics"
(Davison & Burke, 2000)
In two sequential 'real world' studies - sending fake job applications in identical
mother and non-mother/father and non-father versions - sociologist Correll
found "..only 47% of mothers, compared with 84% of non-mothers were
recommended for hire"....."While parenthood served as no disadvantage at all
to men.....Mothers received only half as many callbacks as their identically
quali鍖ed childless counterparts
(Correll, Benard & Paik, 2007)
24. "While there are entire chapters - books, even - devoted to the issues of being a
working mother, rare indeed is it to come across even a paragraph in a child-
rearing manual that addresses the con鍖icts of time and responsibility that arise
from being a working father" (Fine)
Pamela Stone's detailed interview study of 54 women "Opting out? Why Women
Really Quit Careers and Head Home" is referenced also, albeit with caveats
due to the small sample: "Their husbands, who also had demanding careers,
were often described by their wives as being 'supportive' and giving their
wives a 'choice'. But none provided a real choice to their wives by offering to
adapt their own careers to family demands. (Stone, Opting out, 2007)
"The idea of having it all never meant doing it all. Men are parents, too, and
actually women will never be equal outside the home until men are equal
inside the home". (Gloria Steinem)
25. Debunk no 6"
Modern neurology shows how male/female
difference derives from brain chemistry
26. Different brains, different skills....?
Fine is particularly passionate on the subject of a slew of recent pop-psychology
books/articles supposedly rooting male/female difference in brain science,
books that she debunks as spurious and misguided.
She addresses a series of in鍖uential, much-reported studies suggesting apparent
greater brain language/spatial 'lateralization' (specialization) in males.
Roughly, the theory goes that men's brains use just their left hemisphere when
processing language and visuospatial stimuli whereas women's brains are
supposedly less lateralized (more divergent/scattered) so that in similar tasks
they tend to use both sides of the brain simultaneously. Leading to women's
apparently superior verbal/multi-tasking skills and men's better spatial
processing.
In particular, Fine notes that two meta-analyses by neuroscientist Iris Sommer in
2004 and 2008 have reviewed all data from all available studies and in both
cases found "no signi鍖cant sex difference in functional language
lateralization (Sommer, Aleman, Boumer & Kahn, 2004/Sommer, Aleman,
Somers, Boks & Kahn, 2008)
27. Obviously no risk of interpretation bias here....
"Why should a localized brain create a spotlight mind good at certain masculine
tasks? And why should a global, interconnected brain create a 鍖oodlight mind
better at feminine activities. (Fine) Its like Victorian scientists suggesting
that men's larger brains are the root cause for certain aspects of superior
intellect - until science proved no brain size-brain capability connection.
McGill University philosopher of science Ian Gold challenges interpretation of
shorter male brain circuits as enabling narrow focus in the mind along similar
lines: May as well say hairier body so fuzzier thinker. Or that human beings
are capable of 鍖xing fuses because the brain uses electricity (Gold, Oct 2008)
"And this is the problem: the obscurity of the relationship between brain
structure and psychological function means that just-so stories can be all too
easily written and rewritten (Fine)
29. Should we even be surprised by assumptions
about the cause of gender difference?
"In the nineteenth century, when the seat of the intellect was
thought to reside in the frontal lobes, careful observation of
male and female brains revealed that this region appeared
larger and more complexly structured in males, while the
parietal lobes were better developd in women. Yet when
scienti鍖c thought came to the opinion that it was instead
the parietal lobes that furnished powers of abstract
intellectual thought, subsequent observations revealed that
the parietal lobes were more developed in the male, after
all" (Fine)
30. But might the real cause and effect be
the exact other way round?
[Should we be asking if] gender difference is the product
of gender inequality, and not the other way around
(Michael Kimmel, The Gendered Society, 2008)
31. And if thats the case, imagine what
could come next
I deny that any one knows, or can know, the nature of the two sexes, as
long as they have only been seen in their present relation to one
another.
I consider it presumption in anyone to pretend to decide what women are
or are not, can or cannot be, by natural constitution. They have always
hitherto been kept, as far as regards spontaneous development, in so
unnatural a state, that their nature cannot but have been greatly distorted
and disguised; and no one can safely pronounce that if womens nature
were left to choose its direction as freely as mens, and if no arti鍖cial bent
were attempted to be given to it except that required by the conditions of
human society, and given to both sexes alike, there would be any
material difference, or perhaps any difference at all, in the character and
capacities which would unfold themselves.
(John Stuart Mill, philosopher, 1869)