The document discusses aligning teams through feedback. It introduces the Johari window model for understanding feedback and blind spots. It provides principles for giving effective feedback, including using "I" statements and making the feedback specific, goal-oriented, and understandable. It also discusses receiving feedback with an open mindset. The document outlines different contexts for feedback and emphasizes regular feedback between all team members. It provides tips for structuring constructive feedback conversations and aligning teams around a shared vision, goals, roles and cultural norms. The ultimate goal is for all team members to freely give feedback to one another.
10. Goal: Get off
the Triangle
Take one act of power Empower Others
Stay in the game
Give up the right to be right
Victim Caretaker
Persecutor
Deserter
11. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN
WE COMMUNICATE
The sender
Message sent
Context
Position
Style
Emotion
Words used
12. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE
COMMUNICATE
The receiver
Response
Choice
Meaning
Feelings
Meaning
Personal filters
Message received
16. 16
Always - do a self check
Use I statements
Make it specific
Make it as impersonal as possible
Make it goal/action oriented
Ensure understanding
Make sure it is controllable
Tailor it to fit context/situation/person
General feedback principles
18. Receiving feedback
Say thank you first
Take time if you need
Own it - find something to learn about and
for yourself
Ok to ask clarifying questions - when you are
clear and grounded
19. Live feedback - can be a dialog, questions, longer discussion., Most helpful
for more crucial conversations
Email/Slack etc. - Caution! Feedback most always should be impersonal and
focused. Craft it carefully
1 x 1s - both manager and direct report should offer feedback regularly
Peer/team feedback - the holy grail! Try doing it as a team to socialize it in
first.
ULTIMATE GOAL: EVERYONE GIVES FEEDBACK TO EACH
OTHER, ALL OF THE TIME!
Understanding context
20. Feedback grab bag
1. Can it be a dialog instead?
2. What about feedback to my manager? To a
peer? To a senior executive?
3. What about email/slack/live/etc.?
4. Is it ok to give sandwich feedback?
21. 1. (Ask questions/get clear/ground)
2. State the purpose
I wanted to talk with because I feel disconnected...
The project is a bit delayed...
3. State the data (what I experience/see...)
Here is what I saw
When this came in 2 weeks late
4. State the impact and/or inference
My experience is...my judgment is...
I am frustrated
This causes me stress
5. Come to agreement/make a suggestion/request
I would ask So we agree..
P.D.I.A.
23. 5 STEPS TO AN ALIGNED TEAM
1. Why does your team exist?
2. Where are you going? What is the future that is
different from today?
3. Who do you need, doing what work to get there?
4. What structure and process do you need to execute
the work?
5. How will you coach your team?
26. Vision/Compelling Purpose/WHY
Whats your vision/comp
purpose for your team?
What does the future look like?
How it will feel?
How it will operate?
Strategy and structure?
28. Building the right team
Given your goals, who will you need doing what?
New hires?
Shift roles and responsibilities?
Whats the right structure to support this?
What is the culture you expect?
29. Managing individuals has two dimensions
1. The business and technical aspects of their job
2. The behaviors and cultural attributes you expect
for their role, including Collective cultural
attributes
What is your answer for #2?
30. Team Agreements or Norms
What behaviors will hold and sustain your team?
What can you hold each other accountable to?
What kind of culture would you like to create?
31. 5 STEPS TO AN ALIGNED TEAM
1. Why does your team exist?
2. Where are you going? What is the future that is
different from today?
3. Who do you need, doing what work to get there?
4. What structure and process do you need to execute
the work?
5. How will you coach your team?