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exploring happiness
• Raghavendra (Raghav) Mithare
• rmithare@processwhirl.com
• 17-Dec-2015

thanks

thanks and welcome
• quick time check
• expectations
• be present
• my role and your role

today
small exercise on mindfulness
barriers for happiness
exploring happiness
sustaining happiness

let’s pause !

barriers – “mental chatter”
• obstructions, barricades, hurdles, difficulties, impediments

judgement, lack of attention

mindfulness
• small exercise / experience
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instructions
•  please follow the instructions
• It is “Okay” if you don’t 
• Observe your experience

share
• can we share and learn ?

“happiness” ?
• your perspectives
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some background
• Coaching
• What makes people happy ?

one

where is happiness ?
Body Mind You

where is happiness ?
• What we are doing ?

two

happiness (p,e,m)
• P – pleasure

happiness
• E – Engagement
• commitment to some activity

FLOW
• Prof. Mihaly Csikszentmihalay
• ease and grace
• absorbed - watching v/s playing cricket

Challenge
Ability
Zone 1
Stress/ Fear Zone 2
FLOW
Zone 3
Boredom

1930 experiment – Kids
punishment - allowed to play
Behave well - More work -
Challenge !

(m)
engagement
pleasure
• ?
• ?
• acting in movies
• cooking
• playing cricket
• movies
• eating
• watching cricket

pause and reflect
•
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H = P , E , M

meaning

purpose – bigger than self –
about others
• Searching for meaning

seligman’s experiment

Vivek Lohani – Founder Parivar

long lasting

is it better to happy now or
later?

Present
Future
Determinant Benefit
Determinant
Nihilism
Stale food
(Unhealthy and poor
taste)
Hedonism
Junk Food
(Unhealthy but tasty)
Benefit
Rat Race
Health food
(Healthy but tasteless)
Happiness
Ideal food
(healthy and tasty)

how can I be happy now?

I like it

meaning
engagement
pleasure
• purpose
• others
• acting in movies
• cooking
• playing cricket
• movies
• eating
• watching cricket

but
• constraints of time and money

start small
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my inspiration
• Service Space (Video)
• http://www.servicespace.org/

sustaining …

It is one of the most
beautiful compensation of
this life that no man can
sincerely try to help another
without helping himself -
Emerson

gratitude

10 days – gratitude exercise
• Buddha
• happens for good

let’s start with what we
already have

“let go”

“It was like I had been chasing after something and suddenly
I just stopped and looked around me. I stopped inside and my
mind became peaceful and clear. We don’t know what it means
to let go … to discover that nothing is permeant and we invent
numerous beliefs to protect us from the fear of letting go. We
are frightened of letting go because we have postponed it. I
believe that only through that act will my mind be free and able
to experience what true freedom is”
- Marc Foster Screen Writer , Director “The Kite Runner”

summary
• reflect and share
• what is your take away?
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Pause

thanks !
• write to me at mithare@gmail.com
• +91 988 666 2066 (India)
• or
• rmithare@processwhirl.com
• +44 782 164 5866 (UK)

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