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I thought that I would indulge in a little “Food for Thought.”
We have a relationship with everything in our lives and one of the most
intense relationships that we have is with food.

We can not survive for long without food; it is fundamental to our
existence. Our relationship with food is different for each of us. Some of us
eat to live, some live to eat. Food is often used to sooth our emotional pain,
as a means self punishment or reward. It also nourishes our bodies to keep
us healthy and is a means of creating and maintaining social bonds.

Food can also become a source of stress. We are bombarded by the Media
and Government Departments about which foods are bad for us and which we
can and can’t eat. Then ideas change and we are told that we can now eat
things that were previously taboo! We are hit with Atkins Diets, Israeli
Diets, Fat Free Diets, CSIRO Diets, Celebrity Diets, etc. Are you confused?

We have umpteen cooking shows on TV showing us how to make
wonderful meals for ourselves and our families with good
wholesome fresh food. More confusion as these TV Chefs use
ingredients like butter, cream, salt, pasta and horror of horrors Potatoes!
Yes, the humble Spud has been demonized for years even though it has been
a staple food for generations and even improved the quality of the diet of
the population when it was first introduced into Europe in 1536 by the
Spanish. Is it no wonder that confusion reigns and our relationship with food
becomes a battle ground?

Apart from confusion there are other emotions evoked by food.

For example:

Guilt – why on earth do we feel guilty about eating food? It’s ridiculous
when you think about it. Eating food has no effect on anyone but you. And if
you are eating a sensible well balanced diet most of the time, what’s wrong
with indulging yourself now and again with treats like chocolate? As my
Grandmother used to say “A little bit of what you fancy does you good”.

I often hear people say things like “I had a piece of cake when out
at lunch with friends, so now I have to work out harder at the Gym
and eat less.” You enjoyed giving yourself a treat at the time and that’s fine.
So how is it productive to feel guilty about treating yourself? What is it
that makes you feel that you now have to punish yourself with extra
exercise and by starving yourself?

Fear – fear of being fat, of not being acceptable, of not being loved, of not
being good enough all have an impact on our relationship with food.

Control – in my experience people with eating disorders often feel that the
only thing that they can control in their lives is the food that they do or do
not put into their mouths.

Thin is IN, so many people go from diet to diet in an unachievable
quest for the perfect body with the idea that when they are thin
they will be lovable and accepted. I often hear people swapping
stories with each other about the diets that they are on and how
fat they are; making those of us who are not dieting feel like we are
outsiders.

The sad fact is that diets do not work and many people ultimately end up
fatter than before which makes them feel even less lovable.
The good news is that science is now showing that you don’t have to be thin
to be fit and healthy. The other bit of good news is that you are always
lovable for who you are, not what you weigh.

Compulsive eating expert Geneen Roth in her book Women Food and God
states “I believe we are walking, talking expressions of our deepest
convictions; everything we believe about love, fear, transformation and God
is revealed in how, when and what we eat.” I thought the eating guidelines
that Roth set to allow your body to reach its natural weight were
interesting, so here they are:

1. Eat when you are hungry
2. Eat sitting down in a calm environment. This does not include the car.
3. Eat without distractions. Distractions include radio, television,
newspapers, books, intense or anxiety-producing conversations or music.
4. Eat what your body wants
5. Eat until you are satisfied.
6. Eat (with the intention of being) in full view of others.
7. Eat with enjoyment, gusto and pleasure.

For those of you who are interested, Geneen Roth’s book Women Food and
God is available through The Book Depository web site. I found it to be an
interesting read and highly recommend it.

Did You Know That?

• The can opener was invented 48 years after cans were introduced.
• Ketchup was sold in the 1830's as medicine.
• Astronauts are not allowed to eat beans before they go into space
because passing wind in a spacesuit damages them.
• Some Eskimos have been known to use refrigerators to keep their
food from freezing.
• Bakers used to be fined if their loaves were under weight, so they
used to add an extra loaf to every dozen, just in case -- hence, the
expression "baker's dozen"

And Finally – A Thought For The Day:

Live every moment like it’s your last chance to eat Chocolate!

I hope you enjoyed my Food for Thought!

Hilary Thompson, The Out and About Therapist.

www.theoutandabouttherapist.com

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